I walked in on them....And she has been gone for 5 weeks and i still miss her ....what should i do?
2007-12-11 13:44:51 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't fight THAT, dude....
Sorry to hear of your loss. :(
2007-12-11 13:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by >>Phoenix<< 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. She left you AND she bats for the other team?
If she didn't want to be with you she should have broken up with you. All I can say is don't do anything crazy, do you for a sec (i.e: have some time when you're not w/ anyone so you can heal from this), then move on to the next girl. I can't imagine this being your fault. She doesn't deserve you. There are other women who will appreciate you, but you can't go looking for them when you're a reck over a previous relationship. I can't tell you specificly what to do, though. Sorry.
2007-12-11 13:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she left you for a female and been gone 5 weeks with this same female theres a big chance shes probably not coming back,and even if she does chances are it wont be the same and she may leave again because shes obviously very bi or gay,so tho im sure it hurts and what she did was wrong your better off just letting her go and moving on.
2007-12-11 13:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by tx_rainbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the girl patch and pick a new one. ;)
It does not matter who she was with - she is a cheating little two-timer. Some people think being Bi means that they can have one partner of each gender and still consider themselves being "exclusive" with each partner instead of two-timing them both. That is not how it works for the partners, though.
It always takes time to get over the feeling of loss when a relationship is lost - but unless you are willing to share her with one or a series of female partners, it's over. Maybe she is just a really major party girl, also, so there might be more guys too - big thing to overlook.
2007-12-11 13:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you walked in on them did you scream,yell,or anything like that? I take it they saw you standing there. If you really do like her call her and tell her. Maybe she is so ashamed, or embarrassed over the whole thing, or that she thinks you don't want to have anything to do with her after seeing her like that? If after that she still doesn't want you go out get a hobby, find a female to go out with, just keep busy and eventually it will fade away. Good luck on everything.
2007-12-11 14:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Over It And Find Someone New
2007-12-11 13:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~LaShae~*~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just hang with your friends, have a good time with them and keep dating at the back of your mind. just go out and be social and you'll meet someone new. besides from what my girlfriend tells me at about 19-21 girls kind of experiment anyway so if she was in that age range then you might have an explanation for this happening. other than that i say **** her, she cheated, her loss
2007-12-11 13:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Hockey is awesome! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
uhm.. well that is rele gross. so she is by. yew dont need her. why would yew want a gurl who likes boys and gurls. yew are better off without her. and maybe try and meet a new gurl.. or jus sit back and watch for awhile. if yew are patient good things will come to yew. there is no point in sittinqq around and beinq sadd about what used tew be. so yew should just let go of everythinq yew guys where. it doesnt mean it doesnt hurt. ok well i hope that helps.. and if it doesnt im sorry. =( okk well lots of love.. *AMbERf.*
2007-12-11 13:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Adalie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
why u wanna be with some1 who left u 4 some1 else? if u r dish of second table then be my guess and go about looking 4 her and begging her.... now if u really value urself, find some1 who will be there 4 u thru thin and thick.... wish ur ex the best in life... but she's already found some1... now it's x 4 u 2 do the same.
2007-12-11 13:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ouch! That's gotta hurt. As exciting as it sounds, it's cheating good and proper, and the reality is that's a really low thing to do. I'd say find the strength to move on.
2007-12-11 13:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let go. Find a better woman! It doesn't matter that she left you for another woman...she left you. Go out and find a nice, respectable, honest person to spend your life with!
2007-12-11 13:48:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋