This guy is coming on way too strong its creepy?

Question

I just met this guy on myspace 2 weeks ago I don't know him in real life. Since then I am now his number 1, he comment every single picture I have. He constantly writes me dumb messages that just say "Roar!" he always types "lolzz" after everything he says and it's really annoying me. He even said he loves me and misses me like crazy. I think he is a crazy one himself. He put me as one of his "heroes" on myspace and it writes "sarah is awesome" all over his myspace. He's being really stalkerish & he doesn't even really know me! Keeps talking about how he wants to just sit on the computer and talk to me all day, I find talking to him quite boring cause he talks about weird stuff. I just don't know how to be mean to him and say "chill out"

What is a nice way to tell him to back off a little?

Answer 1

Alittle? I would think you would want him to completely back off. I had a similar event this past August where I went on just ONE date and the person said they loved me, that we were soul mates, wanted to constantly talk to me on the phone every single day and when I didn't call the person would be very upset. What a depressing idiot that turned out to be, lied and said they had a house when actually they were living in someone else's house, the person turned out to NOT have a house, slept on a sofa in someone else's house, didn't even have a room of their own, lied to me about other things, there was just too much negativity going on. Then thought they had a right over me, questioning me about why I like to sleep then accusing me of being depressed all the time, even went so far as to say "I thought when you met me you would be happy", now how conceited and screwed up is that? I just cut to the chase and said goodbye before it got even further out of hand. Then came the crying phone calls and the drunken drugged up sounding voice that was so incoherent even a person with PERFECT hearing could not comprehend. You really should be careful with those Internet romances, I have had a few negative experiences and I would much rather be alone now than to settle for anything less than what I am looking for. Life is too short for being cornered and bullied into a relationship that will only end up going nowhere. I would rather be single and happy, than in a nowhere relationship and miserable. Best wishes to you. =)

Answer 2

It has only been a short time since that myspace suicide...and people on myspace need to stop being so damned crazy. Report him, then delete him, and yeah be careful who you talk to. My general rule is I don't allow anyone to be my friend unless I know them in real life. You just can't trust people.

Answer 3

Remove him/block him on myspace. He could be a sexual predator for all you know. I see sick people all over the news and it somehow relates to Myspace. You should set your myspace to PRIVATE and only your friends can view it that way so you don't have crazy people like that guy. Don't tell him to back off. You back off of him.

Answer 4

There may not be a lot of room for worrying about being polite. I mean, don't say anything mean, but you need to make sure there is no room for misinterpretation. Say "You're too much for me, you're bothering me, and I need you to leave me alone completely." Also check out MySpace's policies on this kind of thing and contact them - you know this kind of thing has got to happen all the time there and I'm sure they can take care of it.

Answer 5

I've had creepy people contact me as well. I've tried using the preferences part of myspace to limit who can contact me. Also, when I get a message I don't want to answer or from someone I'm not interested in, I click on the block the contact and I believe there's a section in there as well to specifically block people in your preferences.

Answer 6

First of all - I think that you are wrong to put the picture that you have up. ( the little picture that is under your name.) It is very "inviting" and in this case "inviting to the wrong sort of person"!!!!!! Secondly - try just logging off of myspace completely and then changing your "name" so that it is really gender neutral or really different. I did my name - Su-Nami - like I did on purpose. It gives me a chance to talk to people, but it still hides my identity.
Please be careful - there are a lot of unsavery people out there looking for unsuspecting people and they will try to gain your trust by whatever means is necessary.
Is there any way that you can possible block this guy????
Please, please be careful online!!!!!!

Answer 7

This guy is bad news. Texting someone is a poor way of communicating, and by telling you he wants to do all those things means he does not care anything about you, except for sex. I would never answer him again! If you do, you are just encouraging him to keep doing that -- to you, or to other girls.

Answer 8

Back off a little? I believe this guy will not take a hint. Tell him straight out you are not interested then block his access. Stop all comminucations and reveiw you my space to protect your real life location. Sounds like a stalker. Bad juju

Answer 9

Do the old classic more annoying routine. Piss him off alot tell him you have a boyfriend, ummmmm he is ugly as [place bad word here] ummm along those lines. Like if he doesn't know you then it should be no big. Or do the boring thing and block him or just say piss off [place bad word here]

Answer 10

There is no nice way. Some guys can't take a hint. Don't even risk it. Tell him point blank that his behavior is inappropriate and to back the eff off or you'll block his stalker butt.