I just want to have someone to talk to
some one to hold my hand
But the only problem is I get very nervous around guys and i do not know what to say
HELP
2007-12-11 13:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just have to relax be yourself dont put up a front like acting like ur some1 else because they well know and walk away. u want them to fall for u not for anyone else.
2007-12-11 13:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about something that is common to people---men and women alike.As human beings, we need the social contact of other people especially of the opposite sex;someone to hold our hands, talk to, who loves us, support us and so on. However, there is no manual or set of directions to help us get it; more so if we are shy, not popular or beautiful, nervous,or smart. My suggestion is:1) be yourself2) join social clubs, groups in school to expand the guys you meet3)get family members and family friends to introduce you to nice guys who share your interests so that you will have something to talk about.4) remember that the guys are just as nervous as you even though they may like you5 )finally, smile and say hello or hi to people. You will be surprised at the magic of a smile or hello and their impact or effect on other people.They say to other people that they can approach you, that you are friendly, that you are nice, and you can be their friend. Believe me when I tell you that every body wants a friend.While I don't have a solution that is an instant answer, if you try the above ideas, you will soon be singing a different tune. I wish you the best and good luck.
2007-12-11 13:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act friendly and nice.and almost sluty,im not compeled to that but most guys are.i like that nice girl who gets good grades plays sports and never gets in trouble.
2007-12-11 13:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply ask a guy u atlest like .i can b the one coz my aim in life is to make lot of frnds so will u help me by being my frnd
hrs my id(tj_det@rediffmail.com)
2007-12-11 13:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by streetrover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too im in middle school it is hard just keep ya head up!
2007-12-11 13:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sounds just like me!!!!! I have just come to realize that it will come but you have to give things time......good luck
2007-12-11 13:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush it great relationship takes time
2007-12-11 13:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Human 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in middle school they get mor nervous around if ur older wat r u nervous about
2007-12-11 13:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Puertorican 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋