my boyfriend and i dated for only 1 month we broke up last night over the phone because he doesn't have time for a girlfriend right now he came over to my house and we had sex then we took a walk i tried kissing him and he wouldn't let me kiss him he said we're only friends and theres still a place for me in his heart its so hard being friends with him because i still care about him alot and he still cares about me alot to i still feel like he doesn't care about me should i talk to him more about it??
2007-12-11 12:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by snookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were having sex with a guy you had only been dating a MONTH? Honey, where is your self-respect?!
He got what he wanted and he's ready to move on. Learn the hard, painful lesson and don't let it happen again. He doesn't care about you, really, he's just saying all the right words to keep you from killing him. :-)
Do NOT talk to him any more about it. It will only make you look desperate (or horny).
2007-12-11 13:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1>> Whay Ur Bf Can Have SEX With U (JUST FRIEND) But Dos`nt Let U KiSs Him?? KISS After SEX is Like Make Fire In Hot SOMMER , is Not EnjoyBle
2>>Never Talk To Him Any more , He Got What He Wants,,
3>> Maybe U Dont Undrestand , But This Feeling U Have Right Now,,is Not Care About Him,,He Brok Ur PRIDE ,
4>> Dont Cheat Ur Self,,is GoOd If Somtims Listen To Ur Mind,,Not To Ur Heart
2007-12-11 13:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by FaRsHaD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's not ready (or willing) to commit to a relationship. If the interest is there, you can always find time for a significant other (unless he's working full time and going to school full time - then it might be a little difficult, but still workable.)
From what you said, I get the impression that he's trying to keep you around - even if it's just for sex. As you said, "He came over to my house and we had sex then we took a walk. I tried kissing him and he wouldn't let me kiss me. He said we're only friends and there's still a place for me in his heart." My dear... If you were truly "only friends", he wouldn't have had sex with you - and then refused to let you kiss him. It seriously sounds to me like he's using you - and will likely continue to use you, unless you put your foot down.
I hope it works out well for you...
2007-12-11 13:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Damien M. Cross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you give him oral sex? that might be the reason he diddnt want to kiss you...idk why but some people are fussy about that.............whats important is that you define the situation.........are you just friends? or friends with benefits? or not friends? or what?.........you can talk to him about it or you can let the hands of time tell you whats going on.....the only advice i can give you is that if you advertise the fact that he is acting like a douchebag to your friends and family then any relationship you might have with him in the future will be must more difficult..........for your friends and family will probly not like him
2007-12-11 13:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes please do try sometimes men get hurt like hell when they get there heart broken give him some time he'll recover but in the meantime talk to him nicely sometimes a man feelings get anger
2007-12-11 13:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They guy will hit it but not kiss you? Lose the loser
2007-12-11 12:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heres a link that might be helpful http://fon.gs/fallinlove/
2007-12-11 13:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea
2007-12-11 12:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him he is a loser and you deserve better.
2007-12-11 13:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by moyasweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋