me and my boyfriend have being going for about 6months should i stay with him am still in school hes in the navy
2007-12-11 11:52:38 · 10 answers · asked by lulu2009 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
no i want to stay with him but its hard not to see him we are so young i cant bare to use him
2007-12-11 11:59:11 · update #1
he is all that i have i have nothing else he wants to get married before he leaves but am still in school
2007-12-11 12:01:04 · update #2
am just scared of loseing him its not that i dont want him to serve i just dont want him to get hurt and yes i mean highschool
2007-12-11 12:20:52 · update #3
i truely love this boy
2007-12-11 12:22:12 · update #4
his parents hate me i dont know why
2007-12-11 13:46:34 · update #5
If this relationship was meant to work it will. If you both love each other then it won't matter if you are in the same town or 10,000 miles apart, it will work out. Lots of relationships have been able to survive the separation, ours did. It does make you appreciate each other more.
But you also have to concentrate on yourself, finish high school, even go to college if the chance is offered to you. Education is something that is very important. The relationship make work out or you may grow apart because you both have different dreams and goals that you wish to complete.
2007-12-11 13:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by NWIP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truely love him then stay with him. If not then why even ask this question when you already know the truth behind it.
My husband is in the military, as am I and we both understand that there is going to be times that we won't see each other and we are okay with it.
You really need to ask yourself, do I want this relationship, can I be FAITHFUL while hes gone and not break up with him while he's underway? Can I love someone that will be required at one time to work with guns?
P.S. weren't you that chick that left a comment on the gun page about American's being too stupid not to ban guns? You do realize that we being military touch a gun all the time in our military careers.... even in the navy.
2007-12-11 20:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by marajade_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get married while you are still in school (unless you mean high school), so I am not seeing the problem on that aspect. The fact that you have to ask says there are doubts in your mind. What are your doubts? You say you can't bear to lose him...what would you do if God forbid something happened to him while he was out at sea and did not come back? You should never be with someone because you can't live without them. That's not a sign of love. I can live without my husband (I am proving that every day!), but I just don't want to.
2007-12-11 20:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by KD 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you care about him...then you should stay with him. Just because he leaves doesnt mean that its not going to work.but only If both of you are willing to make the sacrifice of being true to one another. There would have to be 100% trust from both side, but that doesnt make it impossible. I think you need to really think about if this relation ship is seriouse, and if you nt to make that kind of commitment. After you do that then you should know if you should be with him or not. Good luck, hope it works out!
2007-12-11 20:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it is an honor to be associated with a member of the United States Military and you would be amazed at the wonderful romance that can happen communicating long distance with a man that is fighting for your freedom. He is the definition of a man
2007-12-11 20:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Delta/Bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's meant to be, you will survive the deployment and be a stronger couple.
FINISH HIGH SCHOOL before you even THINK about getting married.. and it would be better for you to attend college first.
use the deployment to discover who YOU are as a person..not just as an extension of him. you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT live your life revolved around another person. Live your life for yourself, nobody else.
2007-12-11 21:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't do well with long distance relationships and don't feel REALLY strongly for this guy, I would suggest cutting it off now. He's going to want you to stay, maybe even expect it, because he's a military man. Tell him exactly how you feel and see how he reacts.
2007-12-11 20:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by aphrael11235 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think your love is strong enough to hang on. But the thing is, you have only been going out for 6 months. I'm not sure how long he sign up for but the question lies on you. Are you willing to wait for him to come back?
2007-12-11 19:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by Donna L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, of course you should stay with him. If you don't, break it off before he leaves.
2007-12-11 19:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question you already know the answer. Your relationship apparently does not mean much so let him go find one that will last.
Vet-USAF
2007-12-11 19:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by ฉันรักเบ้า 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋