so me and my ex have been broken up and it's been 3 months now?

Question

we were very much in love
and it's been 3 months now and i think she's the type of girl that jumps into relationships cause i heard she was all idk about dating her now new boyfriend plus a rebound like a couple of weeks after we broke up that lasted a month
but we got to the same church and really thats the only time i see her, but i dont want to be just a memory cause we had something "real" and it's something i don't want to give up on and i never felt so strong for a person and i actually felt like a part of her family and i don't want to move on cause i think i'd be missing out plus i think she's the "one" and the breakup was my fault but what should i do
should i avoid contact til her and her new bf break up?
stop going to the same church?
call her and keep in touch or not call her?
i dont know how to do this or what to do and if anybody reading this has got an ex back let me know
i'd hate not see her but at the same time i would want her to miss me
help?

Answer 1

By the time she comes around, you'll have moved on. Move on right now.

Answer 2

my thing is if you've messed up before you will mess up again and I know this from experience. I was given chance after chance by an ex and each time I screwed up. At this point I've given up trying to go back because I know I'll hurt them again which I don't want. So I'd rather endure a little pain from the breakup and eventually move on than continuosly betray someone's trust in me and hurt them. But if you know in your heart, mind, body, and soul, that you won't hurt this girl again then I suggest you tell her that and ask for another chance. You can either wait until she's single or tell her that when she's does decide to move on from the guy she's with you'll be waiting with open arms. If you want you can write a note and have someone you know give it to her but it's up to you. In the mean time stay strong, trials come to make you stronger. This situation will prepare you for your next relationship whether it be with the same girl or someone different. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Im sorry to say, but its over!!!!
Nearly exactly teh same thing happened to me. Wanting them bak is only naturally. U have only been broken up for 3 months, feelings cannot just be swtiched off. You have both clearly moved on. Dont stop talking to her, but definitely giev each other some space to deal with the lose of this romantic relationship. Not all is lost, u may have just gained a good friend in the long run. It may feel like hell atm and that u will never find someone like her but thats only natural. You will find the one who is right for you. IF u did get bak together, i can tell u, things just wont be the same.
Good luck

Answer 4

This is hard to answer clearly because you say the break up was your fault but you don't explain how. Did you cheat? If so, move on, you screwed up, deal with it.
If you broke up with her for some stupid reason, then you need to contact her if you want. If you broke up with her, don't expect her to come back to you. My ex 2yrs ago, broke up with me over stupid bs reasons, then 3 months later, she came crawling back. She called me one night out of the blue, I didn't even recognize her voice at that point. I was seeing someone already but it was really new, we weren't even bf/gf yet. I still loved her so I gave it another go and stopped seeing the new girl which she obviously got upset but I felt I was doing the right thing. My ex and I only lasted another 1 1/2month. I don't regret it because now I know without a shadow of a doubt that she's not for me at all, my current gf is. The point is, if you caused the break up, it's your job to approach her, don't expect her to.

Answer 5

If she has a new boyfriend then she probably has moved on. You say it was your fault for you two breaking up so maybe you should move on too. Hey, you live, you learn. Someone else will come around so don't be so down about it. If you want try talking to her and apologize. If that doesn't work then move on. You can't force someone to have the same feelings for you that you have for them. Don't sweat it ... someone else will come along, it just takes time.

Answer 6

If you break up once you will most likely break up again. But you should say something to her so you are not looking here for what to do. Take control of your feelings and put them in front of her. If she tells you that she does not feel the same and doesn't want what you have said, then you must be able to let her go for good.

Answer 7

From the sound of it she doesn't want a relationship with you (no offense) That's not fair to you to want and yearn for someone who doesn't feel the same about you. So go out have funny and who knows you may find someone 10 times better than her.

GOD BLESS : )

Answer 8

I know its tough, I've been there...but right now you should wait until they break up. I wouldnt call her, it would be hard just to be friends right now and that would be torture to yourself. I hate to break it to you but I dont think she will miss you if she has another boyfriend, you got to be real with yourself dude move on

Answer 9

Move on. You can do better than her. There's always someone better for you. Don't spend your precious time thinking of some girl who seems to jump from person to person. Good luck (:

Answer 10

i finished enjoying video games while i finished being a youngster, some on no account do. My suggestion is to locate a girl who knows what they want, and is close adequate to spend some high quality time with. long distance relationships on no account paintings out.