My boyfriend of 9 months broke up a week ago. We started talking again and he's called me to go over and we always end up having sex. Is that the only reason he's calling me? Am I considered his booty call?
2007-12-11 11:11:01 · 25 answers · asked by ~JUST ME~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It very well may be the case.
Unless this is something you are okay with, you need to stop these "booty calls" immediately. He's getting the sex without the commitment so what reason does he have to get back together with you? He can do whatever he wants and still.... well do you! If he doesn't want to talk to you without the sex, you know its time to move on.
Good luck!
2007-12-11 11:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your ex why is he calling you over did you spend this much time with him when the two of you were together? and ask yourself why do you keep going over there when you KNOW how it's gonna end? you both have issues that you need to discuss for complete closure. and havin sex is not the answer. so at the end of the day yes, im sorry to say but you are his booty call because you made yourself his booty call. instead try asking him what he needs from you that cant be answered over the phone.
~good luck
2007-12-12 09:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by justtrymebuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way yes because since u always go over and that's all u end up doing at the end of the day than it works out for him because his still attracted to u but if he wanted to be serious with u again he would talk to u and respect that u because u guys arnt going out any more talk to him next time Ur over their its better to find out the true than live in a lie and be the booty call
2007-12-11 19:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by monica nora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seriously...thats what it sounds like to me. if he doesnt even mention getting back together but yet wont turn down a piece of midnight booty....then let him go because he's not worth it. unless you dont mind him using you as a booty call, i'd stop having sex with him pronto!
2007-12-11 19:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by r&b diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You're being used for sex! How does that feel?
Personally, I'd be pissed off if I thought someone was using me like that, but I guess that if you don't mind being used like that, and using someone else like that, then it's all cool. Just so long as both of you know that you're sex buddies and nothing else.
Sounds to me like you need to talk to this guy though to see if he's jerking you around or not.
Just my $.02
2007-12-11 19:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Oddeye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats all he's calling you over for
then i do consider that a booty call.
this is just not on
this boy needs to get a heart.
its very innappropriate
to treat someone he use to love like this
2007-12-11 19:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Shayyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be. But, if it makes you feel better, he can also be considered your booty call. So...you're sex buddies...awesome
2007-12-11 19:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap, if that's all you two are doing. . . you're just a booty call. Stop being at his beckon call and move on.
2007-12-11 19:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not his booty call but he just wanna keep effin u and doin whatever else he's doin while he's broken up with u. and i gather u aint bangin anyone else so of course u'll do it with him, he's your ex after all. find out why he wanna keep doin it and not be with u
2007-12-11 19:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by iluvmeeee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup yup sounds like it. Talk to him, ask him if he wants a real relationship with you.
Good Luck! CRG
2007-12-11 19:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋