Hey. I'm 14. The person I like at school and she likes me now, has offered to give me a BJ! What do I do?
2007-12-11 10:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by Lovin life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bj for free, no string attached, then go for it. but do check if your admirer has any sores or mouth diseases that may be transfer to you during the course. haven't heard of mouth aids though!
2007-12-11 10:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD! I don't even want to think about my son doing this, but in all honesty it's your body and you have to make wise choices. If you truly like her and things end up at oral sex that's one thing. But just don't use her for a BJ. Good luck hon!
2007-12-11 18:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you accept, you will likely regret it. You don't even need to be dating right now, man, just worry about school and sports and friends. You definitely don't need some girl who wants to get in your pants so readily. That is a huge red flag about how willing she is, and that means she is starving for attention and will likely be really possessive in a relationship.
2007-12-11 18:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow her too do it, because if you really do like her, then that will just set the relationship up too be just about sex, i would tell her you really do like her, but you want too take things slow.
Or
Let her give you a ********, and you two just become "Cut Buddies"
It's your choice.
2007-12-11 18:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no clue what a BJ is im a fourth grader so im out of here
2007-12-11 18:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Alisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have her give you two bj's and then you give one to your best friend
2007-12-11 18:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Angus 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um I think you should have her tested first you never know where her mouths quite been. Better safe then sorry dude.
2007-12-11 18:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~I less than 3 you~*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seal the deal!
Wear a condom tho, dude.
2007-12-11 18:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by boogers mcghee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what the heck is a bj? O_o
2007-12-11 18:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥CaramelDucky♥ 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
geez your 14, what are you thinking?! no, wait, you'll be thankful you waited in the future
2007-12-11 18:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kalee 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋