We've been dating for about 6 months. Recently I mentioned that they bug me, especially the one of Jenna Jameson and some other naked chick hanging in his living room, and he said he'd take THAT ONE down. But it still hasn't come down... Am I crazy to think that I may be entirely wasting my time wit him? Other than that, our relationship is pretty great, he is sweet and funny and pretty much everything I could ever want. But if he felt the same way changing something so simple wouldn't even be a question right?
2007-12-11 10:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I should add more... I have mentioned it bugs me, and i asked if it would bug him if i had guys in my place. He said it wouldn't... I considered putting them up to test them out, but I really prefer to live in a nice mature enviroment, not something tacky lol.
2007-12-11 10:51:29 · update #1
For the guys - what would your reaction be if your girlfriend asked you to take them down? And its not really a jealousy issue, i'm in great shape... I just don't see why I'm not enough i guess...
2007-12-11 10:54:43 · update #2
The guy is a first class jerk. He won't get any better.
2007-12-11 10:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nomadd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gut feeling is probably right . Better wait a while before you fall for him totally . To have that hanging all over the house is strange . What is he trying to prove .
2007-12-11 10:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would he feel if you had pictures of naked men hanging
from the walls? If he would not like it, then why is he doing it.
My opinion is ask the question, and if he does not change
then, yes, you are wasting your time with him.
2007-12-11 10:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Chief70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do this, it just means they're being guys... If it bothers you, ask him why he has those pictures all over his house.
2007-12-11 10:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww. certainly one of those turn-off eh? My bf as quickly as placed up a jig-observed physique finished by way of certainly one of his ex-gf, in basic terms immediately above his mattress and it completely freaked me out cos that is like he's gonna worship that jig-observed physique some time later. I informed him and asked him to take it away. i did not meant for him to throw it away... in basic terms leave it someplace far flung from me. yet being candy, he reported he will throw it away if it certainly bugs me. yet on the instant, that physique lies at the back of his computing device, nevertheless proudly status. Haha. ok... i in my view think of there is not any way you could exchange your bf. you won't be able to stress him to take all those photographs down. have you ever found out why he needs those photographs in his homestead? in case you have not, try looking out why and verify out to comprehend. And keep away from going over to his homestead altogether and while he comes ard and ask you why havent you been desirous to hold out at his homestead, tell him, you're afflicted by way of the image and you extremely not bypass over; that should get him afflicted to concentration on those photographs. And interior the destiny if ever the the two certainly one of you have been to head in collectively. Get yet another residence. Ask him to sell his.. and you will do to yours too and get a clean one that the two certainly one of you could beautify returned and tell him to delight save those image to the minimum cos it is your homestead too now and he desires to admire that and you do not decide to experience uncomfortable while acquaintances comes over to bypass to. solid success!
2016-12-17 15:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by carcieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋