I got grounded because my parents are making me study for my midterms. Last week, the girl I like invited me to a show that is this weekend, but I can't go because of my parents. I told the girl today, and she seemed a little upset, and asked me to beg my parents, but I said there was no chance but I'd try anyway. She said ok but I don't know if she took what I said as "ok he doesn't like me" or "ok he really does want to go because he does like me" Well, my question is, what should I say to her to get the point across that I like her, and as of now, does she like me? (Sorry I couldn't be any more specific.)
2007-12-11 10:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by #1MetsFan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have not gotten yourself grounded in the first place. But you did. Then, you should always tell the whole truth about it to us if you want an accurate answer. But I don't think you have. You should always be upfront and honest with the girl you like. But you weren't. And finally, you should take your punishment like a man. And you're not.
Will she accept another invitation out with you? No woman I know would. Grow up and be honest with the girl. Good luck, I think you'll need it.
2007-12-11 10:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choices, choices...
First, if she cannot understand that your parents have the best intentions in making sure your grades and education are priority, I'd be really concerned about her own priorities. Don't push your parents too much. Perhaps you can show them that you've studied a ton already and deserve a break. Just don't blow the chance if they give you one by staying out too late or lying about studying enough.
Second, if you don't get permission to go out, remind her that there will be other shows and that you still want to hang out. Keep letting her know that midterms is not the best time for you and you really need to focus right now. However, the holidays are coming up and you'll have a ton of free time (unless your family is traveling a lot) to hang out.
Good luck!
2007-12-11 18:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon no I doubt she feels like that, she has parents and understands how parents are. But the next time you speak to her apologize tell her I'm very sorry but my parents wouldn't budge and I really wanted to go to the movies with you because I like you a lot and if its ok can we make another date my treat.And make sure you stay on top of all your studies in the future so you never miss out on another special opportunity again. Happy Holidays
2007-12-11 18:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, definately, but wants you to like her, but that can be a little hard for her to believe when you give her the "I'm Grounded" excuse, even when it's true. It will be hard to convince her, so try suggesting another night to go out when you are NOT grounded. And stay out of trouble so you don't have to give the same excuse.
Good luck!
2007-12-11 18:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by thetiger1413 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like she likes you since she asked you to beg your parents...
I'd probably tell her I like her, so she doesn't think you're blowing her off.
2007-12-11 18:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by E.P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on studying... if she liked you then she'll like you now... same attraction.
2007-12-11 18:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by something crazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋