Ok, so i really need help with this one guy, please? im no little kid either?

Question

ok, i am 16, and so is he, and i know this is going to sound really immature. im going to start from the very beginning. i met him at the beginning of this year, and i wasnt initially attracted to him, he liked a girl in our class, and after a while she told me he asked her out, and she said no. then after a while him and i sat together in class, and we started talking, and i said something about her, and he said yeah thats why i got over her. we flirted all the time, and we had fun, but we never really talked outside of class except for the odd hi. but you know when a guy looks deep into your eyes and you cant help but feel he likes you, well that was how it was. anyway, so since a couple of days ago he has been acting weirder. i have to add, i have been flirting a little more obvious like touching his arm, and stuff like that. and i dont know what the deal is. can you tell me please?
and i have to add too that he is pretty popular and is friends with most of the hot girls. and im not anything special either, i get a lot of attention from guys, but i have curves like Scarlett Johansen but i like them. i have a great personality and people think im funny, but i dont know. how would i really compare to them?

Answer 1

stfu yaguru

he likes u. he will soon ask u out.

no doubt baout dat. Give him a chance to do that. Say yes, and make sure u hold a real relationship, and not a quick slutty one.

good luck, and i hope this helps.

Answer 2

I've heard that opposites attract or people with very few similarites can tend to like each other pretty much because they want to find out about the other person's interests. But I don't think you'd really have to worry about comparing yourself. I try comparing myself to ALOT of popular people in my school and you know, there are times when i really can't find anything the same between us. Comparing yourself might make you want to change yourself and you don't want to throw away the nice personality you already have. People fall under different categories and everyone's different and I guess the popular people must all have something in common. If you find what they have in common, maybe you'd be able to see how you'd relate to them in a way. Don't make too much of an obvious move with the guy though. I think the way you flirt with him is pretty obvious, especially with the touching. I wouldn't recommend on telling him yet though. You don't want to blow your chance so soon.

Answer 3

Curves are awesome. I have them too. And believe me a great personality goes a long way. You put it out there and I'm sure this guy has caught on that you like him. I'm also sure he likes you back. Just cuz he's popular and there are prettier girls by todays standards that he hangs with doesn't meen he can't like you. I think you should just continue flirting with him and be yourself. Eventually he'll get enough courage to ask you out!

Answer 4

I don't mean to be harsh, but believe me when I say that I have been through this a million times. Guys are very out there and quite clueless (sorry guys I don't mean all of you, but most you must agree) anyway when they like you it is usually so obvious they don't even know how obvious they are being. so you pretty much know, what you think is flirting from him may just be how he acts... I'm really sorry but that's how it sounds to me. If it turns out to be that don't let your heart break to much, you have so much time ahead of you and so many other guys to meet! Chin up! :)

Answer 5

The deal is you're flirting with a guy who might or might not ask you out sometime. Blah.

Different guys like different kinds of girls. My GF is more Scarlett than Hayden, and I'm very happy about that.

Answer 6

let me just start this off with have you told him you like him? do you hang out with him after class and outside class? let me tell ya something when i meet my husband i actually told my sister he not my type, and yes i did say now he is my husband and we have been together 5 years.
and for the way he is acting it could be one of two things. he has found out you like him and he likes you and doesn't know what to do about it, or the second one is he knows you like him but he might not feel the same and doesn't know how to tell ya. hope this help. good luck.

Answer 7

Perhaps you are being too forward with him and he is intimated and/or tuned off by your aggressiveness. Maybe he is used to making the first move (assuming he is interested in you that way). Try backing off a little. Sure, still let him know you are interested but see what moves, if any, he makes....The ball is in his court...see what he will do.
Don't seem too over zealous, he may confuse this with being too pushy.
Remember, you are 16 and you still have a loooong way to go!

Answer 8

dont compare your self 2 celebrities 2 start with its not healthy for young girls 2 do that.
if you think your out of his leagu how r u meant 2 show him how good u really r.
im sure ur great, if he cant c that its his loss
tell him how u feel then wait.

Answer 9

ok well you don't want to be to obvious and just tell him or tell a friend to tell him. try not talking to him for a day and see if seems to talk to you more after. just give hints but don't tell him other wise you might be wrong and make thing weird.

Answer 10

Start flirting more assertively until he begins to show an interest in you, assuming you want him to show an interest in you. Remember, confidence is sexy, and try and smile and look feminine. Its an age-old formula and it works very well. Use your curves to your best advantage. It certainly works on me!