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I guess an ugly guy, like me can't fall in love unless he knows the one he likes is ugly too
I think this girl do like me
But maybe it is just my imagination
She is too good looking for me
The only advantage I got is that I am in a higher class then her.
But that’s not that really important.

2007-12-11 10:17:15 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

50 answers

why did u say that??
Don't ever think that she is too "good looking for you"
You look really good, I mean it I wouldn't lie to u, so u guys are perfect for each other!!
Even if u did not look good and she looked good, no one ever Judges each other base on how good they look. She probably likes who you are from th inside a very Nice caring friendly person.
Not many ppl have that, but she found it with you!!
I have been riends with u and I see that u are very very very ( I can keep going on) very nice person and you have a big heart!!
Just from that I can see u deserve the best
so dont ever say you dont deserve her fo watever reason
besides you look very good, I am not lieing to !!!!
Wish u all the best!!
Jasmine!

2007-12-11 19:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine 3 · 1 0

Dude, you gotta have confidence. Give her a reason to give you a chance. If she's that pretty, than she's gonna be used to guys coming at her. You gotta show her that you value yourself, and you care about her feelings as a person *first*. Then you can move on from there. Stop calling your self ugly, because your sabotaging your love life before it really takes off. Woman have the advantage of being able to be attracted to a guy's personality just as much, if not more than the physical, use that to your advantage. Here's what I would do. Tell her how you feel point blank. Not in a weird stalker sort of way, but in a "just so you know, you have someone in me who really cares about you, and could be a great boyfriend if given a chance" kind of way. Tell her, then step off, leaving the ball in her court. If she's interested, she;ll make the next move. If not, at least you told her. Just make sure you go back to normal, and not get all clingy and weird after you tell her. She'll need time to process the information, and discuss it with her friends (oh, they'll hear about it). They'll try to influence her decision, and they might succeed, but you have to go back to being whatever you were to her until she makes a decision. (Through action, or inaction...either way you'll know)
Doing this got me my first serious girlfriend....we've been together for 8 years, married for 2.
Good luck!!

2007-12-11 10:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I dont want to sound ego or to be taken the wrong way. I am good looking and in good shape, my husband, from other views and at first glance isnt the best in shape nor brad pitt ya know. But I love him more than anything and I think hes very sexy to me. I think its all about finding a woman or person that isnt vain, or shallow to judge only by looks. There are alot of women out there that see past certain things that you notice probably too much. Dont worry too much about it. We're not all vain! Be true to who you are and someone will love that about you too.

2007-12-11 10:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Foxy 1 · 0 0

Not everybody is a George Clooney.

Look at Albert Einstein. Not much of a looker but he had mistress after mistress....Why..his inner self

Go sit in a mall and look around. you will find that as Abraham Lincoln once said "God must have loved the common people because he made so many of 'em".

Who you are is not determined about how you look.....example Paris Hilton and Britney Spears and Lindsay Lohan.....Excellent examples of human debris. Pretty but worthless.

Be who you are and worry about the people who miss their chance to be with you.

Regards,

2007-12-11 10:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bob W 5 · 0 0

Real beauty is on the skin deep, so many people focus on the external when they should look deeper. Something, GOD forbid, could happen; what if that person got hit by a car, had a stroke, lost a limb etc... then what? True beauty is on the skin deep and you must be some kind of beautiful! "Smile", are there any more like you? and where can I find him?

2007-12-11 10:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Flowers 3 · 0 0

Maybe those "ugly" guys have personality and character and yes confidence. Which really stands out in the long run. Girls want someone charming, funny, down to earth, personality, kind and thoughtful.

2016-05-23 03:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by lavera 3 · 0 0

Did you ever thing she may not be one of the "shallow girls", that are more interested in who is on there arm appearance wise, then what the guys is really like/
Some, not many, do get attracted to a guys because they SEE something in that person, usually that others don't. May be manors, maturity, intelligence, same interests. Don't be so hard on yourself, i think alot of school girls, and adult females are shallow that way, but there are still some out there that aren't.

2007-12-11 10:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by do.drop 4 · 1 1

Dude, in all reality, girls like guys solely for their looks in high school, but then they start thinking about who you are. Guys might only care about how hot a chick is, but they care about how nice and considerate you are. The fact that you say she's too good for you is awesome. Tell it to her. She probably does like you, so just try, it can't hurt.

2007-12-11 10:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by rotcfreak1 5 · 1 0

If you're ugly on the inside, then you may have a point. Outer looks only matter in extreme cases or cases where that's all there is to consider because the person is void upstairs. In other words, If you don't love yourself, no one else ever will. OK. maybe your parents will. Grow some confidence son!

2007-12-11 10:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 3

i no how you feel. i consider myself kinda ugly and im really smart so people think im a geek. a girl should like you for who you are. there is going to be a girl that you think is beautiful and she is going to fall in love with you. just give it time.

2007-12-11 10:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by ekoudela12 1 · 0 0

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