My Ex girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me last week because she said she was depressed and needed to work things out. I understood. She never told anyone of our relationship. I thought she told her ex 3 or 4 months ago because she told me that but he just told me she never did and he didn't know. Her ex before me just told me that she told him she's dating another guy. And I always see this guy in her room now. I'm so hurt and confused, should I confront her about this or just take a clean leave and never speak to her again. She still calls and IM's me everyday, so she will be suspicious if I don't ever talk to her again. I'm so hurt and lost. What should I do? I felt used as rebound and taken advantage of. Please help.
2007-12-11 10:17:12 · 5 answers · asked by charchar88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Figure out what intentions she had with your relationship. The fact that she wouldn't tell anyone about you guys is what worries me. Talk to her, but don't be pushy. If you can just get a calm, honest conversation going, maybe you can get her side of it, and if nothing else, it will provide closure for the both of you.
2007-12-11 10:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let things go, stay friends, and thank God it happend before you got into a relationship with someone who was not truthful. Even though she used you there is a very important thing your over looking. Trust, and honesty. What kind of relationship do you have without them? She has done you a favor by telling you she couldn't be either. If she must know tell her you understand, and respect her choice to do what she done there is no hard feeling, remain friends and move on. Eventually you will find someone who will be that Honest ,Trustworthy, young lady you are looking for. Good Luck! You are a much better person, and deserve much better. Give it time, your heart will heal, and you will be better off. Have a Great Christmas!
2007-12-11 18:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by mandm68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are going through such a difficult time, I think that if you tell her what you know and ask here why she was not honest with you that it will help to put your mind at ease. She sounds like she needs to grow up and act like an adult. To tell someone they need space so they can see someone else is not very adult like. You would be better off to cut your losses and move on to someone who can appreciate what you have. Good luck!
2007-12-11 18:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. She seems to have moved on. You should too. Plenty more fish in the sea. ( i know, heard that before. But its so true) Dont waste any more time on her.
2007-12-11 18:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's still into her ex. I know it's hard, but you're going to have to move on.
2007-12-11 18:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋