I don't know what to do, because his not the same with me no more he doesn't call me often. He says his very busy with his business. I'm really hurt because i like him so much I'm only thinking of him every day. I missed him.
2007-12-11 09:28:27 · 48 answers · asked by norma * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes bad things happens to good people; just go on with your life i know you are missing him but try real hard to forget abou him, i think that he just, used you and he can;t face the reality that he did not respect you as a friend, one learn from they mistake on look at it as a mistake you made, if he realy cares abou you and your feeling he would have call or try to see, you and apologized for taking advantange, off you, find you some friends relax, be happy life is short and tomorrow is not promise to no one , so life goes on love your self, and please don't make the same mistake ever again, be bless!
2007-12-11 09:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rosalinda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and watch "when Harry met Sally". Classic study of what happens when friends have sex. Of course, it all worked out ok in the end for them....
Maybe your friend really is just busy. Maybe he is embarassed because he doesn't want a full-on relationship but doesn't know how to go back to the friendship. You may just need to relax and give it some time.
2007-12-11 09:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haven't you learned anything from TV, guys and girls can't be friends, unless its a gay / straight or a ugly / good looking friendship. Youre either a couple or you don't talk
Case in point Dawson and Joey, c'mon that never worked out, uhmmm lets see Ross ended up hooking up with Rachael at the end of friends. Winnie and Kevin? Todd Bertuzzi and Steve Moore!!!!! Or go watch Chasing AMy
Here listen to this http://www.lyricsfreak.com/b/bonnie+raitt/i+cant+make+you+love+me_20022611.html
this will help you get over your friendship, also read the wiki article below, explaining how this song was written
2007-12-11 10:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by mv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U c, the thing is, this guy, just like EVERY OTHER guy, has a special inate ability to have sex and NOT have emotional ties because of it. Maybe he IS very bizy, maybe u should try to seduce him again, cuz after a few times in the sack, he will prob get a bit more connected with you and you can go from there, have fun, and LOTS of it =)
2007-12-11 09:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Roman The Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like the sex either threw him off with what he wanted or made him think differently of you. He either wants to talk to you and doesnt know what to say (this would be the good option) or he regrets what he did and has nothing to say to you because the sex changed your friendship. Just be honest and ask him what's up?!? because if you keep wondering and nothing is said you may never find out and the longer you wait the harder it will be to ask him about how he feels. good luck!!!
2007-12-11 09:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by brneyedgrrl80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think that he probably thinks a little different of you now..if he's your best friend, you should have just kept it that way..or talk about it, and tell him how you truly feel..if u call him and he says he's busy, then before you two hang up, tell him listen, i need to talk to you about something, it's really eating me alive, if you could please give me the time of day, i need to tell you what's bothering me.. and be as open as possible with him don't hold anything back.
2007-12-11 09:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bandolera721 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's scared and doesnt know what to do. Just arrange a normal date between the two of you to go somewhere for a few hours and relax and talk to one another, maybe over lunch or dinner, maybe on a picnic - just someplace private.
2007-12-11 09:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, just let things cool off and wait a few days to talk to him.
Once you get a chance to talk to him, let him know what's up, but also let him know that the friendship won't change because you slept together or because he doesn't like you back [if that's the case].
2007-12-11 09:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by M.L. Monster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex changes things (for better or worse), and the relationship can never be the same.
Perhaps if you give it time. But, if that's not your style. Just be straight & blunt...but confront him when you two are alone.
Otherwise, you may just have to go your seperate ways. Sorry.
2007-12-11 09:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him!
Seariously, march up to him and be like, why don't we talk as much anymore? If he says nothing has changed then say it has, present some proof be it physical or mental.
If he's still a loser about it all tell him he was rubbish anyway and walk off :]
Sounds like he used you tbh.
2007-12-11 09:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by DdNotre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋