I've been in class with this guy all semester and we looked at eachother but never talked because we were both in relationships. Now we are both single..my relationship is permanently over, but his is borderline. We ran into eachother at the club, danced all night, stayed up late talking, and have been texting and hanging out since. He says that he doesn't want or need his ex but they dated so long hes not sure he could turn her down if she wanted him back. I'm really into him, we clicked right away and i feel so comfortable with him, but I'm scared im going to get hurt. Should I keep talking to him or move on?
2007-12-11 09:25:33 · 7 answers · asked by soinlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep talking to him, don't run away or give up. stay and talk to him.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-11 09:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I really think you shoul tell him your feelings about him an on his feelings for his ex. If you really like him, then tell him what's up. Just keep talking to him, and get him to like you more. Lol, now that you're hanging out more with him, use that as an advntage over the ex. Good luck
2007-12-11 09:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Laura M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should keep talking to him. I mean to have a really good boyfriend its better to be friends with him first so your comfortable with liking him. If your scared of getting hurt just talk to someone about it. It'll relieve that feeling and make you more confident.
2007-12-11 09:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by CHeLSeA ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel knowing that he isn't that into you because he's into someone else?
Doesn't that push you away from him a little bit? I think you will get hurt so my choice is for you to move on.
2007-12-11 09:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space to figure out what he wants. If you lose him its ok, you dont need to open yourself up to a guy who is not over his previous relationship. Dont do that to yourself. Space means not seeing him or texting him until he tells you it is definitely over with his ex.
2007-12-11 09:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run. Stay. Being hurt would be worth it. Never knowing would be so much worse.
2007-12-11 09:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by LEMON the good life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not ready to leave her out of his life..he's just going to be using you as a rebound just in case she doesnt want him back! i really suggest you leave him..or else you Will end up getting hurt...
2007-12-11 09:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋