I have been liking a lot of people & I'm tired of them not liking me back!! I don't know what to do!! I am about 160-180 for being under 18!! would you suggest losing weight or what!! I just need help so bad because I can't stand not having anybody like me and I like them!!
2007-12-11 09:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though you MIGHT need to lose weight for health reasons that shouldn't be the reason someone wouldn't like you.
Maybe you are just setting sights on unattainable people.
I believe there is someone for everyone. You'll meet someone who likes you. :)
2007-12-11 09:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mole Shooz Babii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I'd say not to worry about the weight except that you are the one who brought it up. Therefore it must be bothering you. Lose some. You aren't at a point that it would be extremely difficult. I do find it hard to believe however that a few extra pounds is the only reason people don't like you. Hopefully you're meaning in a romantic relationship. Good luck.
2007-12-11 17:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know u personally, and u SO don't look fat. Caitlin the only reason I can think of is that you don't like ever have a smile or a very 'welcoming face'. Like u look really "God I don't want to be here". Only when ur w/ ur friends do you actually smile and be yourself~~~Not trying to be harsh or anything
2007-12-11 17:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Blonde and still LOVING it♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think weight has much to do with it. I know tons tons of people who weighed that and over who date all the time. Just trust in yourself. If you need to lose weight to feel more confident then go ahead. But honestly just be you and enjoy and love yourself and people will flock to you.
2007-12-11 17:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by LEMON the good life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out with making friends with a boy then they might like you back. after that you could change and he might like you even more.
2007-12-11 17:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change yourself for someone else if they dont like you for who you are then theyll only like you for what you got
2007-12-11 17:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by TheGemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u look fat? if u dont ur fine. and if u feel gud then ur ok.
2007-12-11 17:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by Pooh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋