we've never met and had these incredible conversations on the phone. We are going to finally meet this weekend, we really connect and I amazed by his insight. He listens to me always gives me constructive feedback and how to deal with things. He said at first, he was interested in us just hooking up but now he said he doesn't want to rush things and lose our friendship we've developed. I keep waiting for him to lose interest and go his way but it hasn't happened yet. My only concern is he's 15 years younger than me, I'm 38 and he's 23. I know it sounds crazy, but could this truly be something worth something?
2007-12-11 09:13:29 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey go for it....good luck
2007-12-11 09:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by MMarlon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expressed my opinion on this earlier too, when you had asked for answers to this situation with some other words.
I am fully convinced that the guy is a mature person having a responsible position in his Corpn.He does understand what it means having such a close relationship with a senior lady as you are.
I am sure , he loves you.Why not explore the prospect of a nice and healthy relationship with him. Be little bold and try it with an open mind.I think age difference is not a great factor.I know many ladies having good relationship with younger guys and running their families in a descent manner.Go ahead and I wish you all the best.
God Bless
2007-12-11 19:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can kind of relate to your situation in that when I first started "getting serious" with my girlfriend (as in going on dates) I became paranoid that she would eventually become bored of me and leave. I don't know why I thought this but the best advice that I could give you would be to just remain calm, this guy certainly does seem to like you and it is a good sign that he has asked to not rush things so that the friendship you two have created can not be put into jeopardy. I'd say that this does sound like something that would/will be worth making a go of, as for the age issue, as long as you get along with one another, age should be irrelevant.
Hope this helps and good luck meeting him, I'm sure you'll be fine!
2007-12-11 09:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...maybe but the age diff is kinda weird and since youve never met its like an online dating kinda thing,,ya kno?? ide find someone my own age if i were u but its ur call...
2007-12-11 09:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one day at a time, a lot of younger men like older women.. hope the best for you..
2007-12-11 09:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by nicko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to be his MOM!!! I think you are kidding yourself here. Friends, yes, you may even get sex, but a lasting relationship? I doubt it!
2007-12-11 09:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋