Do Boys think about love the way girls do?

Question

For example
when i think of Love
I think of Kissing,and Hugging and Holding each others hand
I think of all this romantic sutff
what does a boy think about when it comes to girls?
I know sex is the obvious one...what seriously deeper thing do they think about?

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Answer 1

Thats not the only thing i think about, i think of kissing, hugging, holding each others hand, just having someone there who you knows cares about you, someone who will be there for you, someone that you can talk to.

that what i think about love, i also think about that weird feeling in my chest and all over my body too, i dont really know if anyone else gets that but i do.

I love my gilrfriend, and i dont ever want to leave her, i hope she never wants to leave me either but i know she wouldnt.

but thats not all i think about, its true that allot of other guys only think about that, and nothing else much more, but theres some like me who arent like that.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I think the more mature a guy gets (and I don't mean just older) the more romantic they can be and some are naturally romantic but they're in the minority. I've definitely changed in that area - I don't have 'just sex' anymore and want romance. BTW - it's not just guys - a lot of women I'm finding are less romantic and just want a guy around for sex and then to leave - it works both ways - I refuse. And I can't stand porn anymore either - it makes me sick - even soft core. I think about love, closeness, friendship, and only want sex with someone I'm in love with.

Answer 4

I would say the same thing girls think about, but mostly sex. Having someone is really nice also.

Having someone makes me more responsible. Like I know I have to go get a job to pay for dinners and such.

Answer 5

Being in Love is the same feeling for both Men & Women they just show it differently. Women are more open with all their emotions, whereas Men don't want to look soft in front of others, for example by holding hands with gf in public.

Answer 6

It depends upon who the guy is, where the guy is from, how old the guy is, and what his needs are.

I think compatibility and companionship is a big part of love, as is "this romantic stuff" that you've listed. I think many more guys think about sex first and foremost, but remember, while women are biological nurterers, guys are biological protectors. So, for them, a large part of "love" is keeping their loved one safe, secure, protected, and theirs. This may mean providing for them (i.e. gifts, taking them out to dinner, etc.) keeping them safe from harm, "protecting" them from other men (i.e. some types of jealousy), etc.

But there's still a part of "love" that's about completeness -- finding your "other half" who has similar interests and thoughts, but different enough ones to keep you thinking and guessing. Physical intimacy that extends beyond sex. Skin contact and touching that just feels good.
That's certainly part of it, but not all of it.

Answer 7

Guys and girls are generally wired differently (Nature designed us that way) so although we all are capable of all the emotions, we don't usually react to them the same or have the same triggers to feel them.

Girls are more likely to have "mushy" affectionate reactions to love, guys are more likely to have more sexual or logical reactions to love. That's not to say they never think about cuddling and hugging, but typically less so than women.

Answer 8

sighs, im so tempted to just say sex and how he can get into ya pants later...but sadly that aint always the truth...heh and u thought u could get away with the easy answer...
some guys think abt having a good time, others think abt the moment ur currently sharing...well like mushrooms, u get the nice tasting 1s u get the poisonous 1s, and if ur really lucky u get the magic 1s...
cheers,
djohn

Answer 9

Wish i could tell you Huggles but i am bound by the male Law not to give away secrets of such nature until i am in a clinch. Have a wonderfull evening.

Answer 10

well besides sex, alot of guys think of support. When we are doing or jobs and careers, we want a girl who can encourage and push us on to succeed. Alot of girls dont really care about what a guy does, as long as he is around for them. We like a girl who is ok with what we do.