I am 19 and I've been with 5 guys already. I feel like a whore but compared to some of my friends, I'm a prude. The other day my 'booty call' told me that he hadn't had sex before me for a while because he couldn't find a girl that was easy enough. I still want to continue having sex, but what really worries me is the way people look at me. I don't want people to look at me like a whore or an easy chick. What do people think?
2007-12-11 08:56:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the comments guys... just wondering, if i was guy, would those of you that say that 5 is too many, still think 5 is too many for a guy my age?
2007-12-11 09:21:31 · update #1
How will anyone know how many people you've slept with unless you tell them? And why is it anyone else's business anyway? How many people you have had sex with is a personal matter.
Don't worry about what other people think. It's none of their concern what you do in your personal life. If you decide not to have sex until marriage, make sure it's because you want to, not because you are afraid of being stereotyped. If you want to continue having an active sex life, there is no shame in that. Just make sure you're practicing safe sex!
2007-12-11 09:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by jlynp84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only 5 at 19? You better get to work...get up to like 20 or 30 if you can in the next year. Veerrryyy niiicccee
2007-12-12 14:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by cnrage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were only concerned about what other people think, I would say don't worry about it. But it seems like you really don't feel good about what you are doing. I decided to wait for marriage after my divorce at age 28! I feel really good about waiting even though it is sometimes difficult, especially now that I have a serious boyfriend. I sense that you want to be respected and to accomplish that, you have to be respectable and think carefully about how you talk, dress, and most importantly, who you hang out with. I hope you decide to wait. Good luck!
2007-12-11 09:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweethart, I think you've already posed the image that youre an easy chick and basically a whore. Sorry, but its true. You should probably stop and save what you have left of your dignity for your one true love.
2007-12-12 10:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pallavolo Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 and already 5 guys....No offense or anything, but i wouldn't date you knowing that. And yes i would highly recommend that you stop having sex until you are married. If a guy really wants to be with you and loves you it will not kill him to wait..and again if he wants to be with you he WILL wait. By the way this is a guys opinion. ..good luck.
2007-12-11 09:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
damn . well im 21 and ive been with 2 people 1 was when i was 16 , and the other is my recent g/f .
and i even told her i dint want to any more till we have ringers on our fingers ...
for me its i want to get married ..
and when i do i dont want my wife whoever she will be to be with a bunch of guys .. so i do the same..
plus i cant have sex unless i felt i really loved that girl.
its just me tho ... good luck
2007-12-11 09:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would quit now before you have too many past lovers 5 guys is alot for a 19 yr old.
2007-12-11 08:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Obviously your 'booty call' has finally found someone (you) that is easy enough.
If you don't want to be considered easy, stop BEING easy.
2007-12-11 09:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by airjarrod 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't care about what people think of you.. some people just like sex the thing is are you using protection and being safe??? you don't want to get something.. practice safe sex..
2007-12-11 09:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would do it because your i love not for lust or a booty call or to see if your in love. do it because you care about that person enough to want to be with them. MY personal beliefs are wait untill marriage.
2007-12-11 09:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋