do you have to work hard to keep the passion alive?
i dont by the way
2007-12-11 08:28:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, it's not. They're married, and can do whatever they like. As long as both partners consent to the act, and it's done with love, what's wrong with it?
2007-12-11 08:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by solarius 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No and yes. The God Yahweh's strict laws on how humans should engage in sex was for disease prevention reasons. When a man and a woman don't have sex or remain virgins up until they are married they have likely haven't contracted any sexually transmitted diseases to infect each other or their children that they will have in the future. But diseases can still be contracted between husband and wife through anal sex when your sexual organs are exposed to feces particles. Diseases can also be contracted through having sexual intercourse and or oral sex while the woman is going through her menstrual cycle. Diseases can also be spread through the consumption of raw semen during oral sex. So oral sex between a healthy married couple is not committing a sin as long as the couple follow God's proper hygiene laws while engaging in it.
2016-05-23 02:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some Christians believe that any sex apart from the type where conception would be possible is sinful.
So I suppose that would make sex between a couple who cannot have children, or who use a condom sinful as well... But you don't see any Christians throwing tantrums over that >_>
All in all there aren't any clear guidelines about that and it varies from one denomination to another.
Personally I believe that if you really love someone and that love is mutual there should be no boundaries to how you want to express that love as long as you aren't harming anyone.
2007-12-11 12:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The marriage bed is undefiled. There are LOTS of kinky things you can do while married. And while it is indeed important to work at your marriage, I'm not sure that working 'hard' is necessary to keep passions kindled. I think of that part as FUN.
BTW, Oral sex IS included in the 'Song of Solomon'. The 'navel' was actually a reference to an area somewhat lower on the body.
2007-12-11 08:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle C 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's a natural act going back thousand of years. Saliva is a mild disinfectant so by having oral sex before penetration reduced the chance of get an infection .
2007-12-11 08:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is not god he said so his self Mark 12:24 john 17:3 mark 12:28-30 there is nowhere in the whole bible that Jesus said he is god so whats Ur proof. as for oral sex it is not wrong but it is disliked because one of the reasons for sex is procreation but swallowing semen is harmful to the body doctor say and it is a sin to harm Ur body so spit don't swallow.
2007-12-11 13:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by ummkhadijah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The last time I tried it with a christian she thought oral sex meant talking about it.
2007-12-11 08:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
The Bible doesn't mention any place on the body that prohibits "Kissing".
It does require that the "Kissing" be mutually giving to each other. Many times, one party can take this act of love and abuse it for taking instead of giving, and that's when the power of using a good thing can turn into something bad.
2007-12-11 08:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is wrong, but other Christians may certainly disagree with me.
In a recent survey of Christian marrieds, 84% of couples said they DO engage in oral sex; and 16% of couples LIED!
2007-12-11 08:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
no i think christian couples should enjoy the pleasures of sex as much as non christians. i'm a christian by the way.
2007-12-11 08:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋