she is pretty quiet, but i think she might have interest in me. so many other guys at work talk with her; any tips on how i can stand out from the rest? i am really not the type to get people to open up, especially quiet ones, nor do i usually persue coworkers when it comes to romandce. but she really interests me for some reason (her style, the way she carries herself). thnks for any helpful advice
2007-12-11 07:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she might be interested in you then all you have to do is approach her and ask her out, its really simple.
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2007-12-11 07:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫Tweedle Dee♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFIDENCE is the main thing. If you carry yourself with confidence, she'll see you as a man and not a mouse. The other thing is to show an interest in her by asking her questions about herself. This may prove daunting since you say she's shy, but if you are sincere you should be fine. Finally, don't wait too long before asking her out. If you spend too much time chatting her up she'll be interested in you as a friend and not as boyfriend material. When you ask her out, don't say "Hey, would you like to go out sometime?" That's practically begging. Have a plan, and be a little pushy. Say something like "Hey, there's this really great Italian (or whatever) restaurant I'd like to take you to. How about I come get you after work on Friday?" If she doesn't like the restaurant you've chosen, have a back-up plan or say "OK, tell you what, I'm still coming by after work on Friday, so think about where you want to go."
2007-12-11 07:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-10 19:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and don't be shy about trying to get to know her. If she likes you, then you want her to like you based off of YOU, not some front you put on.
Be friendly, make her feel comfortable with you and establish a friendly relationship, but also don't be shy about letting her know that you're interested. Not overtly, but you know. The best way to make things work out is just spend time with her. You'll get a better and better feel for what her (and your) feelings really are.
2007-12-11 07:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by BZR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the thing with quiet girls is that you have to seem really outgoing and "bold" to have a reaction from her. try saying compliments not "hey sexy" unless your joking. if your funny try giving humor a chance but if she doesn't react positivly say "just playin" and ur going to have to be the 1 to make the first move. but really quiet girls can gett "freaky" when u let the open up. they can be the real party freaks.
2007-12-11 07:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Free-bee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wana see how other people respond to this because i am at the same situation...
the only difference is that she turned down a lot of guys already lol
2007-12-11 07:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get in there quick , before your friends do
ask for her number, nd text her etc and then ask her on a date within the next 24 hours
2007-12-11 07:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear some cool out there up to date cloths ask her out and dress to impress
2007-12-11 07:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jenerous C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post her picture email and phone number i'll take care of the rest.
2007-12-11 07:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by jiffy pop 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Grow yourself a nine inch penis. Or just sit in the corner licking your eyebrows.
I swear to God every bird in the place will come running.
They do with me.. ..hehehehe.
2007-12-11 07:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋