We have been having some problems lately that I dont want to mention...but anyway, it's like he may be bipolar or something...and even myself...one minute, we're so close and the next minute, we're arguing about the past...i know we have to move forward and stop looking backwards (well that's actaully me being backwards)...we love each other and we live together...I just want us to get along much better so any tips or suggestions would be great and thanks for your time!
2007-12-11 07:22:54 · 5 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think the best thing for both of you to do is make the past into a positive lesson in life,like if he is insecure when you talk about your former BF tell him that he is a lot better than your ex and that you have learned and have grown a lot with your present than your past,make a positive thing about your negative past and it should work
2007-12-11 08:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to try to remember the past is the past. And stop and think to yourself before you fight, is this worth it. Leave each other alone for awhile when you feel like you might start arguing, go to a different room, go for a walk, go call a friend. Start dating him again. Start going to places you haven't been in awhile, places you went when you were first dating. Good Luck.
2007-12-11 15:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First decide wether you are a all in one jar couple or a I have my jar you have your jar couple.
The best thing to do is to make one account for both of you. For things in and around the house, shopping, morgage, paintjobs. And have your individual accounts. So you can do your shopping in town. You can buy each other dinner and decide there whp will pay. Gives it a feeling as if you aren't together for so long as well.
2007-12-11 16:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by saskia r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clean your tables get everything out without bashing the other i told you in your other questions you need to pray maybe even go to church forgiveness is necessary on both of your parts its hard to let go of yourself and connect with someone else especially if you are young or other things are going on like kids school etc............ pray that is the best advice i can give
2007-12-11 16:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by been there and know now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying positive will solve your question.
2007-12-11 16:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋