i don't know what it is but every guy that i've met this year thinks i'm a little slut. far from it...most don't even know that i'm a virgin. a friend of mine told me that the guy i hung out with this past weekend said i was cute and then asked him if i was a sl*ut. he told him i wasn't..i did nothing to make him think that! is this just a natural reaction for a guy or what? come on now. serious answers please
2007-12-11 06:00:36 · 35 answers · asked by Madison. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Steve A - yes there have been 3 other occurances...THANKS
2007-12-11 06:14:27 · update #1
Maybe you did nothing but it could be your personality or your dress style. It could even be your hair do or how much make up you use. For most guys, if you dress really scantily, have a lot of make up, act silly and ditsy, and wear your hair in a certain way then they will think you're that "type."
2007-12-11 06:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Deveran 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You only mention this one occurence, but you say every guy you met this year thinks the same of you. Are there any other experiences where you have confirmed via a third party that a guy has assumed that about you?
If not, I think you might be letting the one hurtful comment jade your perceptions and you're now ASSUMING guys all think that about you, when many of them likely don't.
Why assume a trend among the entire male population when the incident can be easily explained as an unfortunate encounter with a douche bag?
2007-12-11 06:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Steve A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the way the women Carry's herself. She doesn't have to dress like one, but if she's flirting with every guy and has a lot of guy friends, some guys will think that of her. Some times if the girl is really good looking, not that young anymore and is still single, there's always that question "What's wrong with her?".
2007-12-11 06:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know you, OR the persons you refer-to in your question, I can't give an evaluation of their possible reasons. No, this is NOT the standard "Guy" reaction, at least amongst my gender-peers. Maybe you need to change the guys you see. Maybe you need to re-examine your behaviors, dress, or language-use. That is not an accusation of ANYTHING, just a way of telling you to examine the whole situation carefully and honestly.
2007-12-11 06:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This old joke answers your question.
Q. What's the dif between a W h o r e and a S l u t.
A) A W h o r e will have sex with anyone. A S l u t will have sex with anyone except you.
When a guy can't "have" you, he'll put you down to divert attention from his own inadequacies.
2007-12-11 06:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joe C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's how you dress or wear a lot of eye makeup or something. if it's not something like that, then it's just boys being boys and trying to get a piece of a$$ whenever they can. let it slide. people will call you out for being all kinds of things. as long and you are happy with who you are at the end of the day, then **** everyone else. :)
2007-12-11 06:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by onegirlsnightout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like they are mad cause they want to get some and your not giving it up. I am a guy but i have never understood why guys make crap like that up. I guess young guys think that will make them seem cool cause it makes it sound like they got with you. Try hanging out with a better quality of guy.
2007-12-11 06:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by tonice248 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its up to what u wear
the less u wear cloth, the more slut u r.
or sometimes caus the way u talk, walk, lough or act.
in the end who gives a S!IT, all what u have to do is behave and act like a Lady
2007-12-11 06:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Cold flames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just guys being hopeful . . . :-)
It's interesting -- there used to be a time when most guys assumed a girl was a virgin . . . now they're surprised when they aren't. I'm not sure this is a good thing . . .
2007-12-11 06:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you probly are a very beautiful girl... and inna guys mind there is not a pretty non slut female. they asume all the girls that are pretty are automatically a slut. but many are. they take advantage of their beauty n use it to get watever and however many guys they want when they want.... sorry to say but we cant just change a guys mind til we get to kno them better. u kno it only takes 3 seconds for a person to judge u as soon as the 1st c u. :(
guys think imma slut too... but i just recently lost my v card to my by of almost 2 yrs just last month :(
2007-12-11 06:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~*precious*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋