Basiaclly my family see me as a failure. Im including cousins, uncles and aunties. I have been brought down alot by them i.e studywise i may not be the brightest kids compared to my cousins who are doctors or something highly. But im working hard to prove people wrong. My life has been so low from the start and sometimes i ask god why me? I am so sick of life and being left out in everything. I have been heart broken so many times i just feel like i want to give up on life because it gets to much for me
2007-12-11 04:24:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey Lee, calm down, calm down, you're overwhelmed. First things first: you don't owe to prove yourself to your family. If they don't like you or support you in anything, you don't have to hang out with them. I've estranged myself from my own family and I feel a lot better for it. I have kept contact only with one sister because she is supportive. You need to sever the ties that are hurting you instead of helping you.
Second: Nothing to do with God, it's the circumstances in your life that suck. You're already working hard to change that, but please do it for yourself, not for your family. It's a pretty tough row to hoe, but it's temporary. The key is to remain persistent and steadfast in what you're doing and you'll see results taking shape for you.
Find yourself new people to hang out with. People who will understand you, support you, and appreciate you for who you are. Hope it helps.
Keep your chin up and I wish you well. Take care.
2007-12-11 04:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man dont get disheartened by what is or what has happened to you.Everybody goes through such phases in life you have to accept it and dont get dejected with all those failures.If u belive in god then certainly he will show u the way,even i had to face such things but i was optimistic which helped me later and that too after prolonged struggle and i had also to face embarassments with others,and i hope that you think only about the postive things.Your life is precious and enjoy it.
May god bless u.
2007-12-11 12:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best and then be satisfied because that is all anyone can do. Don't listen to someone who puts you down, because everyone is better at something than someone else. You are better at something than your family is, you may not even be aware of what it is yet, but you will. Try to find out what you excel at and work hard on that. Self pity will only thwart your efforts further so concentrate on doing whats best and be satisfied with that regardless of what someone else says. If you try to please everyone else you will just be frustrated, no one can please everyone. Wishing you the best.
2007-12-11 12:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by politicallyincorrect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to stop listening to your family then. the only person that can judge you a failure is yourself. sounds like you believe what you "family" is telling you.
also sounds like you are feeling sorry for yourself, which does you no good. you might benefit from cognitive behavioral therapy.
2007-12-11 12:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋