I've been with my girlfriend for six months. Her and I are sexually active. I understand that all women are different and women have different size everything. However, everytime we have sex, I can't feel anything. Basically, I think her vagina is too "loose" for me. I'm really not satisfied being with her. I feel like i'm having sex with a "bucket of water" and can't feel any ways. How do I appoach her with my feelings. Or should I not tell her and say things are not working out and we need to go our seperate ways. This is a serious question. Also I know what some girls will say. No, my penis is not small. I know by birth, some women have large vaginas and I guess my girl is an example of it.
2007-12-11 04:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I say "it's like a bucket of water" I mean that it feels the same as a bucket of water. I can't feel nothing.
2007-12-11 04:22:36 · update #1
Also let me say, there is nothing wrong with a big vagina. Maybe some guys like it that way. She should love her body and doesn't have to change for me. My penis is not small. I'm larger than the average guy ( i'm eight and a quarter and pretty wide too). I know that maybe I should sacrifice somethings if I love her. That's big reasons why I'm thinking about breaking things up. It's still early with our relationship and our feelings are not really strong. I'm assuming she will get over me.
2007-12-11 04:34:41 · update #2
How come everytime a guy says a "she has a loose or large vagina" someone thinks her partner has a small penis. Every women is different and just like some guys have big one's and some ones. It works the same way for women.
2007-12-11 04:36:33 · update #3
there is a product called liquid virgin.....you can try it....
2007-12-11 04:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by My Sharona 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look partner, a womens vagina does stretch somewhat after birth, but it returns to nomal after 6 weeks. And also, if a women is with the same guy, her vagina will contract to shape with that penis. Just face the music, you have a small pe....
2007-12-11 04:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mastermind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I particularly think of that's basically a fling for him. remember that loves that interior the summertime usually do no longer final in any case. I say you communicate this out with him, could be call him up as quickly as and propose the justifications why you sense that he does no longer somewhat want in spite of greater from you than intercourse. Say you rather ought to maintain seeing him, even though it ought to be a real relationship the placement you on the least pay attention from each and every distinctive on a regular basis. If that is now no longer happy with him, then pass on, because of the fact its the passable element you're able to do from a guy or woman like that. -Claire
2016-10-11 01:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by riva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the second dude. I had a great guy and he was good to me, but the sex was sooo bad! I think within the two years I was with him, I NEVER got satisfied. This created a whole lot of resentment and I just moved on before I got angry/ugly about it or started cheating. She can't change what she is working with. Really! So, either you move on or you enjoy what you have. And as far as telling you, I think that is for you to decide...what's telling her gonna do? Shrink her stuff? Nope...shrink her confidence more like it.
2007-12-11 04:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by karamell08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, first where are things that can be tried, but if you want o be a man about talk to her, really what is wrong with you young people, I am not completely dead yet, and it seems that sex is all you think about but if you want to be with her, then both of you will need to make changes. There is a product that she can take to tighten her up, but there are also pills that you can take to enhance yourself. I know there is a minor surgery that is available, they nip and tuck a women to be a virgin again, not that I wish that on anyone. Good Luck
2007-12-11 04:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks but if it's not doing much for you you just need to get out. Sex is a big part of a relationship and if your not satisfied it will not work out very well. I wouldn't tell her exactly why though. It will only hurt her feelings.
2007-12-11 04:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that's tough...
Well, sex isn't everything, but it plays a major role in relationships! Think about where you are planning on going with this girl...do you see her as someone that you could possibly be with? Do you love her? And if so, are you willing to overlook that?
I mean, there are other ways that she could please you, but if you don't think she's worth the hassle, then just tell her the truth. I mean, DON'T tell her that she has no walls, lol! But just tell her that it's not working out.
2007-12-11 04:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lovelymissdiorella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think before breaking it off with her you should just talk to her about it first i mean you did say ya'll have been together for about six months so you should feel comfortable enough with each other to talk about it i mean what do you have to lose if you're talkin about breakin it off anyways...and yea there is some cream called "like a virgin" that is suppose to tighten a women up down there maybe you should go out and pick some up
2007-12-11 04:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by twig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell this to your g/f she may make the same complaining; even she does not feel anything. One possibility for you is the anal sex, but that would not solve her problem.
2007-12-11 04:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's enjoying it, it's a natural response. Try first thing in the morning.
2007-12-11 04:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually she doesnt want to hurt your feeling... maybe she has lots to say but she said she understand...poor thing..
2007-12-11 04:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋