when is a good time to ask my girlfriend if she is still a virgin?

Answer 1

after you have sex (The answer will be no)

Answer 2

some females find it very offensive when others ask such a question.
i don't think you should ask her bluntly like that. there are ways to get your answer without asking her straight up.
i suggest when you guys are talking and the mood is right( u will know), you can say some thing like " I've been thinking a lot about us and where we're going and i believe a relationship is based on trust and honesty...i don't want to be offensive or anything and i understand if you don't want to answer but what do you think of sex? are you comfortable with talking about it ... and also are you a...?"
don't finish he statement if you are going to ask her the way I've suggested.
be open minded and be ready for any thing. be bold and manly, you don't have to rush anything.
and also, this just came to me, she will tell you when she's ready, if she does, it shows how much she trust you and respect you enough for you to know something that is private in her life.
all the best.

Answer 3

I don't think it's exactly a rude question. If you genuinely want to know, ask her in a gentle nonpressuring way. It depends on how some girls react to that question. Some won't answer at all because they think the bf will spread it around that they are/aren't, and they'd get a lot of unwanted attention.

If you do find out, don't broadcast it around work/school. She'll never trust you after that. If she's comfortable with you and trusts you, I think she'll tell you w/out a problem.

Answer 4

When she is ready for sex and you have sex you will know your self.You never ask a girl if she is virgin you wait till the time for sex comes you have sex.When you have sex with her dude you will know with out asking her. But be ready if she is, you will know I can tell you.But who care if you love her it will not matter if she is or if she is not.Does a women ask a man if he is still a virgin? So why ask her if she is, just injoy what she has to give you. Don't ask just find out for your self.

Answer 5

That depends--why do you want to know? Because you only want to date her if she is a virgin? Or because the issue of sex will come up between you and you want to know if she's a virgin because your initial sexual behavior will differ depending on the answer?

Answer 6

Don't ask. It's not something that you need to know, unless your married.

If you do decide to ask, make sure your going to be ok with either answer. It's a rude question, and has the potential to severely hurt your relationship.

Answer 7

There is not really a good time to ask a question like that! Unles you have a pretty open relationship then i would steer clear of that question or things could get weird between you!!

Answer 8

I think when you’re thinking about being physical in the relationship, you need to talk about it first. Just tell her that you want to and see what she says. I don’t think that’s a question you want to ask. It’s kind of a rude/blunt question to ask. Let her offer the information. Perhaps, you need to go first and say what your experience is.

Answer 9

Right now is a good time but if she is that kind of girl that gets hurt to easy then wait till your relationship gets stronger.

Answer 10

If you want to know, then the next time that you two are alone just bring it up and ask. There is no special time for that kind of question, and if you're wanting to know...just ask!

Answer 11

Instead of being insensitive about it and saying "Are you still a virigin?" have a conversation about your sexual pasts and experiences. Take time to get to know her and let it come up in conversation. Otherwise you will sound like a tool.