I am 29 she 25. We were together for 3 months. We were really into eachother and things went way to fast. We had sex within 3 days of knowing eachother and things skyrocketted. She expressed to me sometime that she needed space but was doing it so things didnt get messed up in teh future for us. Then she todl me that she agreed that things went to fast and kinda freaked her out. She had just got out a a verbally abusive relationship one month before me got together. She states that she was still messed up by her ex. She broke yup with me telling me she lost the spark, cause we were togther to much. She stated to me that she still wanted to talk to me and hang out and she will pronanly regret the decision to break up with me. My question is she still thinking of me and will time have her realize how good we had it? We never had any problems in our relationship she stated she wanted to marry me etc... Could her finding someone like me that was so "prince like" scare her off?
2007-12-11 03:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has commitment issues. She needs counciling. If she doens't want to be with you, then you should move on. Sorry to say that. She does need a friend though, are you willing to tell her to go to counciling and put the abuse behind her? Be her friend if you can. You may not turn her on anymore. Its not fair to you though. your a good person. Don't stop being a good man, you being nice is not the reason she broe up with you. Continue to be a good man. smooch!
2007-12-11 03:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were only together 3 months; you were still in the honeymoon period. She likely lost that feeling and figured the relationship wasn't worth fighting for. Plus it sounds a little like you were the rebound guy, since she just got out of a relationship, especially one that awful.
Give her time to do her own thing. If she feels the same, she'll let you know. But don't assume things were great with a 3 month long relationship, or that she sincerely thought she'd marry you. She didn't know you well enough.
2007-12-11 11:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋