Why do men like to avoid talking about problems and just ignore you or hangup when your not happy about some thing. they always think your the one trying to argue but actually your trying to explain some thing.
2007-12-11 03:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by london-fem 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah and that they do pretend everything is ok after lol
2007-12-11 03:44:49 · update #1
Because they don't like to talk ... regarding a relationship... and you should not try to explain everything... if they want answers they have to ask... and if you want to talk about something should ask first ... give them time to realize they have no choice but to talk about it...
2007-12-11 03:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by ddroxana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends a lot on the problem, but with my boyfriend, I've found that I overanalyze what's happening. One day, I mentioned that I felt bad that we fought a lot, and he was puzzled, replying, "I don't think we fight much at all."
Men just view things differently. Most of them don't feel the need to talk about a problem because 1) it's not a problem and 2) it's easier to just let the issue disappear rather than hash it out because the issues tend to be not very serious. (I don't mean cheating or anything like that, but things like washing dishes or something really silly.)
2007-12-11 11:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep,the majority of women are seen as nags if we go on about things,and we only go on about things cos we keep hitting a brick wall when we try to sort the problem out and move on.
That's life,you know what they say about Venus and Mars,we are very different indeed.
I've yet to meet a man that doesn't see their partner as a nag when a problem arises that they prefer to ignore! Not all men,but the majority YES.
2007-12-11 11:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't good with there feelings. I know what your talking about. I just made my boyfriend sit down and talk to me about things that he did that bothered or hurt me. He lives with me so he can't really avoid it. They aren't trying to be mean as far as I can tell but you have to make him sit down and talk with you. Even if he doesn't say anything. Knowing how you feel can sometimes help and if it doesn't then you need to look at your relationship and make sure it's meant to be.
2007-12-11 11:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by MB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ladies ladies ladies are we men so aggrivating ? What about the boxes of chocs the roses the gentle way we guide you through a restaraunt door?. Come on guys we gotta stand up its aDemocracy after all. Take care ladies we love you really.
2007-12-11 17:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by gerard h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well somrtimes true but alot of the time us men don't want to hear everyones problems when know one even wants to listen to ours and besides it is very hard for men to express there feelings so just chill a bit and let the men or your manget comfortable
2007-12-11 11:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.Cofield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it goes in a circle and you can only talk about it over and over so many times and nothing gets solved till both parties have calmed.
2007-12-11 11:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by nole2378 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, it just is the way it is. You forgot to say that later on they like to pretend like nothing happened and all is well...lol
2007-12-11 11:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jami W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk maybe ur just with the wrong guys my b/f always talks about problems and we never argue. but just try to be patient and figure out what the real problem is and explain to him that u dont wanna argue u only wanna explian urself it should work if he really cares about u :)
2007-12-11 11:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men think that if they say i will talk about it later that it will of finished and everything will be better!! they need to get it sorted because time isn't a healer
2007-12-11 12:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by ellie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋