i have a friend?

Question

she is a christian but in some areas of her life she chooses to life her life the way she wants to like livingwith the guy she is going to marry in a couple months and also he excepted christ when he was younger but his brother has pulled him away from god with this science belifs he still goes to church with her and want to raise there kids christian . some people say she is going to hell but isn't a sin a sin every one sins will she go to hell for this

Answer 1

Honestly, unless she asks your opinion it is none of your business. People at times go through many thing before they get to where they want to be. It is not for you to judge. Just be a friend to her and if she asks for your guidance then give your opinion. Good luck

Answer 2

People take bits and pieces of their religion and discard the rest.

I had a friend for nearly 20 years who slept with every man she could get her hands on, not even knowing the names of some of them. She ended up pregnant (go figure), had the kid, never married the father, and basically let the kid raise himself. However, she repeatedly told me I was going to hell because I did not believe the whole god/jesus thing. I'M going to hell?? She broke almost every rule her religion has but she has the guts to tell me I'M going to hell? Needless to say, our friendship is no more. I told her I couldn't take being judged by such a hypocrite.

Perhaps you should back off on the judgement of your friend as well.

Answer 3

She has the form of godliness, but denies the power of God.
A Christian struggles to surrender all areas of life to Christ, which is what we should do. The more you love Jesus, the easier it is to be obedient to Him. We know we love Him, if we keep His commandments. Something will have to happen to get her, and him, to wake up. They cannot go on being double minded, one foot in the Word, the other in the World. They can receive nothing from God being double minded.
Whether or not she ends up in Heaven or in Hell is only up to God to decide. It may be that she and he will repent before they pass on. We can not judge how someone will spend eternity.

Answer 4

Does she believe Jesus Christ went to the cross for her sins, has she turned from them, If she does believe Jesus did, and is turning her life around she is saved, but if she is still sinning and does not care, she does not have The Holy Spirit.

Answer 5

There is just no use in wondering about the consequences to people who do not practice their religion to the letter. You would have to question 99% of the people on earth. Just accept her behavior and let the judgment fall to God.

Answer 6

Salvation is only offered to mankind in one way (YHVH's way). Either you take His name, and follow His rules, or you are not part of Him. Re "Marriage", and "living in sin" nowhere in Scripture does it mention a preacher, or a license from the state....

Answer 7

Hell is not a judgement to be determined by man. God knows her heart. No one knows truly what she is praying about or dealing with.

Answer 8

Yes, a sin is a sin, and God will not look upon sin. But we are all sinners. No one goes to hell for sin. Damnation is for unbelief.

Answer 9

I can't answer this; how does anyone know who's going to "hell" and who's not? It's God's decision, though if she asks for forgiveness I'm assuming she'll be covered. XD

Answer 10

All sinners will if they do not repent from their sins turn from their wicked ways and follow Christ's example.