What would you do?

Question

Ladies:
My next door neighbour found her husband cheating on her. I think she walked in on them. After the initial fighting and arguing, she forgave him within 3 days! He didn't apologize and even tried to rationalize that it's his 'lifestyle' etc, and that she, his wife, was the crazy one for getting upset.
I don't know about you, but I don't think she should have stayed one second upon finding the two cheaters in her bed together.
Since then, while she has been at work, he has had other women over again.
I don't particularly like the wife (or the husband), in fact, otherwise I find her rude and a bit odd and I'm not friends with her. But putting that aside and in the name of the 'girl's code', would you tell the wife anyway that her husband has since cheated on her, or would you leave it alone figuring that she knows the deal and that she has chosen to tolerate his behaviour?

Perfectv
That's the problem, I'm not assuming I know all this because they stand outside in the hall and scream it at each other. And we are forced to listen to all of it. In addition, our walls are paper thin and we hear everything that goes on, unfortunately.
But I think that she does know what's happening and has accepted it, as pathetic as it is.

Answer 1

well personally i would stay out of it no use getting in the middle of someones relationship moreover if you don't find them to be good friends!

if it was your best friend then yes intrude but i personally think she knows that she is being cheated on and it's her fault that she is still with him!

if you want to be a part of the drama then speak up
if you want to just pull her a side and tell her to get balls that's cool too!

but i would stay out of it!

Answer 2

Its great that you care, but really, let this couple live their lives, regardless of the mistakes they make. Its their lives and let whatever comes come to them. If you are close with this woman, you should tell her how you feel and that her husband is still cheating on her, but I cant tell you if that will make her change or not, because its her decision too. Its sad that she will settle for a loser of a husband, but then thats her fault and not yours! At least you tried, and thats the best and only thing you can do.

Answer 3

You should stay out of it. You're not friends. Did you get this info from her (as in she offers it to you) or did you just assume that's what happened? It's possible that he never said his behavior would change, and since she forgave him, he may think it's okay.

It's not your business regardless. Some people tolerate the stupidest stuff (I've been cheated on twice, and it's an instant deal breaker in any relationship for me), so maybe that's her thing. Don't stress and don't get involved.

Answer 4

I would leave it alone unless you are close with her. It's not really any of your business, and who knows what really went on and what they talked about? Maybe she's realy ok with it, or maybe they've decided to have an "open" relationship. Either way, I wouldn't say anything. What you *could* do is somehow leave an annoymous note or something that shows her what he's been up to without you saying it. Although, I really do think she probably knows.

Answer 5

They sound really crazy, stay out of it.

Answer 6

- I would install a camcorder in every room to get it on film the next time,.
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