Ladies:
My next door neighbour found her husband cheating on her. I think she walked in on them. After the initial fighting and arguing, she forgave him within 3 days! He didn't apologize and even tried to rationalize that it's his 'lifestyle' etc, and that she, his wife, was the crazy one for getting upset.
I don't about you, but I don't think she should have stayed one second upon finding the two cheaters in her bed together.
Since then, while she has been at work, he has had other women over again.
I don't particularly like the wife (or the husband), in fact, otherwise I find her rude and a bit odd and I'm not firends with her. But putting that aside and in the name of the 'girl's code', would you tell the wife anyway that her husband has since cheated on her, or would you leave it alone figuring that she knows the deal and that she has chosen to tolerate his behaviour?
2007-12-11 02:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Stay out of it. It's none of your business. All you will do is cause problems, mostly for yourself.
2007-12-11 02:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT your business. She already knows. Stay out of it. You are only drawing negative energy into your world. Not needed. Really, find another hobby. Something positive with good energy. Go out an earn some karma points. She will not appreciate your interferring. Stay out of it.
2007-12-11 10:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to come between them when it is clearly none of your business, by all means...go ahead. BUT...be prepared for both of them to get angry at you. Obviously they have some sort of symbiotic relationship and because she knows what's going on and remains with him, that's her business. Don't you have something better to do?
2007-12-11 11:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of it. All you can do is cause problems for yourself. Leave it alone. It's their business.
2007-12-11 10:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her. Might be incredibly awkward, but she should know. She has a right to know. She might possibly know and be dealing with it, but that's not for certain. Since you aren't particularly fond of her, there isn't a whole lot to lose if you tell her. No friendship on the line or anything. But it's up to you. I just know that I couldn't watch somebody being wronged and not say or do anything to try to help them.
2007-12-11 10:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Are you nuts?
STAY OUT OF IT! You're only asking for trouble there.
2007-12-11 10:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Itsa Secret 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋