curious people!
2007-12-11 01:49:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happened about 8 years ago, but yeah, there's definately some pain the first time, and for me, the next 3 or 4 times too. But after the first couple minutes of pain it turned to pleasure and I really enjoyed it! My boyfriend was really sweet, he went really slow and he made sure I talked to him while it was happening so he knew everything was okay. I actually asked him to stop after his very first penetration... and he did. Which I know was really hard for him (in more ways than 1) so I gave him pleasure another way until I felt okay to try again. But I think the whole experience was 150% better cuz we were totally in love. We're not together anymore... but he is my best friend, and I couldn't be happier with him as my choice for my "first".
2007-12-11 02:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it does. It doesn't matter the size of the guy, if he goes fast or slow or whatever...it's going to hurt. Don't try to get drunk or high to dull the pain because that won't help either. Just take it as slow as you can and do it on a towel because you're probably going to bleed.
You know....your first time really should be with your husband. But if you can't wait, please don't give it up to some random guy. Let there be some history and some feelings between you and the guy. Let it be with someone who's gonna respect you afterwards and not tell all his friends about it.
2007-12-11 09:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the guy, no it does not hurt at all the first time...it is an amazing experience. The two flowers I've plucked have both said that it hurt the first time and the next couple even, but then, almost magically, they enjoyed it.
2007-12-11 09:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know you are just thinking about it, but it is very risky behavior. Making love is an adult behavior with very adult consequences. Accidents do happen, and you are inexperienced, so accidents are very possible. Do you want to give up your dreams to raise a child? Do you want to deal with contracting an STD? Can you handle being used for sex? Making love is more than the physical act. It is a bonding of two souls to produce a new soul. You should save making love until you are in a committed relationship. BTW: marriage is a committed relationship. God bless
2007-12-11 09:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... kelly and a friend of Bill W.. she is just CURIOUS for gods sake... she just wants to know, it doesnt mean she is gonna have sex as soon as she gets an answer from you.. and anyway she might as well be over 18 and still not knowing how it is because her parents didnt tell her.. you never know.
Geez, i once asked about pregnancy and all, for info.. and i got a whole bunch of cow poop... how im destroying my life and how im too young to have a kid... i mean whats up with that?? I was JusT AsKinG!
2007-12-11 10:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ana m ♦ Настя♥ ■ ■ ■ ╪Hecate╪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy: It hurts like hell coz we need to penetrate the hymen, and it irritates us when there isn't enough lube. Not to mention if it's the first time for both, there is the pubic hair issue. But once penetrated, the juices flow, sensations increase, and pain turns into pleasure.
2007-12-11 09:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Pharm tech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone. Mine was uncomfortable but it didn't hurt. It helps if your lover is patient and gentle, and also if you have some lube. And make sure to put a towel down because there will probably be some blood.
2007-12-11 10:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by strawberryrhubarbpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it didnt for me but everyones different and does it differently,its best to get your partner to be gentle the first time and take it at your pace but remember to use protection and only do it if its what you really want...its not a race to lose your virginity and most guys dont respect girls if they give it up too soon...i know a thing or two as im 33 but that doesnt mean im ancient or know nothing...ive been there and youl be giving this same advice when your my age hun
2007-12-11 09:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by little miss lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose it depends on the person but yeah it hurt the first time then afterwards it may still hurt, the more times u do it the less it hurts until it doesnt hurt anymore then u will wanna do it all the time.
2007-12-11 09:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by taurusfinest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm!!! Wow how old are you and why aren't you in school? Anyway sex for the first time should be special and rememberable. It felt like pressure, but it shouldnt be painful to where you cant stand it. It will definitly pass.
2007-12-11 09:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by LOVELY25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋