can a woman and man be just freinds especially after they thought they were going to be married and be together but now htat has not wrked out so can they be just freinds???
can any amn and woman in isalm be just freinds????
2007-12-11 01:34:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2007-12-11 01:35:49 · update #1
Islam never forbid friendship either with men or women.You can be friends but just take care of yourself...by following the Islamic rules and avoid zina.
2007-12-11 01:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lost my everything.. 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Clearly such a zinnah relationship is forbidden in the Qur'aan.Also explicitly haraam and unacceptable by family and Muslim community.The Al-Hadith states "When a man and women are in a relationship without any baraqa of nikah,then satan is the third among them." Dont interpret the Qur'aan according to your own opinion!In completeness of Islamic prescribed manner,find a spouse and embark on nikah.
2007-12-11 10:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hazrat Abu bakr said to prophet muhammad PBUH that i have sent an invitation to a woman to marry me
hazrat muhammad said that have u looked at her.he says NO
then prophet muhammad said u should look at her first because it will increase the love between u
in case of being friendly with each other it is better for uto stay apart as mentioned in the the holy quran and sahih hadith
2007-12-11 09:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no that is not allowed in Islam when a man is alone with a women shatayaan is the third party that in sahih AL bukaari. Satan entices you to commit sins so its not to be done to keep away from sin
2007-12-12 11:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by ummkhadijah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they have sincere intentions in not going over the top, they can but if they fear anything else then they should refrain but still show respect to each other.
2007-12-11 10:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Knowing Gnostic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strictly speaking, yes, but they can't be alone together. There has to be a (male, I think) member of the woman's family present.
Otherwise, as we saw from the recent rape case in Saudi Arabia, both the man and the woman (who were both victims of the rape) can be punished (with 200 lashes, I think it was).
Don't forget, though -- Islam is a religion of peace...
2007-12-11 09:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
i would say absolutely yes as long as no hanky panky.
that is incredible to say simple No. How the girl will know the man if their is prospect for marriage? awake up guys u r driving moslem girls from islam in this country with these stupid dogmas. they will reject u and reject islam. will u be happy when this happen?
2007-12-15 04:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Shary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can not be friends cause it could go wrong - think bout all the teachers female or male , what happens between the pupil and themself - Islam knows the future and what could happen
2007-12-11 09:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
assalam alikom sister
there's nothing in Islam called friendship between a man and a woman...it's not allowed for women to hang out with men other than their husbands and family members like father,brother and uncle.
the relationship between men and women outside marriage should be very limited for necessity.
2007-12-11 09:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
HOW ABSOLUTELY AWFUL THAT YOU EVEN HAVE TO ASK THAT QUESTION!!!!!
Men and Women are EQUALS... and have a right to be friends with whoever they choose same sex or not. No one has the right to tell you otherwise.
Why on earth do so many people still hang on to the archaic, repressive... prehistoric belief system?? Quite honstly I am insulted as this puts shame on all those women who fought (and died) for the right to be considered equal.
2007-12-11 09:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋