My mom has full custody. We live in michigan and my dad lives in Ohio. He cant come and fight for custody because he has some kind of warrant for all the child support he owes but he is starting to pay it off and has been since June.
2007-12-11 01:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by ashleigh c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Any man who does not support his children is a dead-beat. Once you are an adult, you can do whatever you want. While you are still a minor, you should follow your Mom's rules.
2007-12-11 01:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by law she can stop you. its called she has custody until your 18 which at that time your adult. as for your father whats he going to do when cops knock on his door and arrest him for outstandin warrants? leave you alone? he needs to face his charges. come back and get caught up on support. if hes been paying the court will know it and be easier on him. no matter what he owes ur mom that money. she took care of you when he wouldnt stand up and be a man so its her money . maybe if he tried and do right your mom would say yes you can stay with him. she wants whats best for you. does your dad think if u live with him he dont have to pay? thats what my sisters ex thought. he owed 30,000$ in back childsupport. then after not being around for 16yrs he told nephew oh come stay with me. court said he still has to pay cause it was a debt to my sis not child support he pays to take care of child now....
2007-12-11 01:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you got stuck in the middle of a battle between your parents. You could file for emancipation then go live whereever you want. There is no reason you shouldn't be able to spend time with your dad just because he fell behind in child support. It sounds like your mom is holding you hostage.
2007-12-11 06:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur mom cant stop you because by the time u turned 15 u could pick who you wanted 2 live with.
2007-12-11 01:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by gregory b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely you may talk on your ex and tell him in the journey that your baby strikes in with him you won't be in a position to have the money for to pay him the baby help or a minimum of decrease the fee. yet over all there will be one much less guy or woman to purchase nutrition and garments for, so which you're probably already paying the a hundred and fifty or extra and with them out of the abode you will likely save extra money. do no longer enable money be the only determination why your baby strikes out. ensure you talk with them completely with regards to the sturdy and undesirable factors of them moving. superb of success to you and the family individuals.
2016-11-14 10:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she can't you are over 12 and wen ur older than 12 you can decide who u want to live with she can't stop u as long as ur older that 12 my mom didn't stop me and i moved out i'm 15 and my dad can't stop u from moving back home either so u make the right desicion ma!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-11 01:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by ஐHis Sexxi Wifeyஐ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she can not stop you if you want to bond, in fact it may soften his pockets as well as his heart. tell her that these times you can not get back and you love all the things she is doing for you but she can't be your Dad
2007-12-11 01:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by MrsMagee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋