My parents hate me, what can i do?

Question

Basically here is the situation... my mum and dad both drink quite a lot, maybe even enough to be considered aloholics but im not sure, anyway they drink every night. I smoke weed quite frequently, because i would rather do that than intoxicate myself with booze, as alcohol turns people into idiots and makes you do stupid things. I would just rather come home in not such a state and have maybe 1 or 2 beers and a spliff than 10 beers and come home throwing up and feeling ill. However last night i had the worst argument so far with my parents and they just dont listen because they drink. They were calling me a ' Smack head thieving addict ' because i took a cigarette from my mum as i ran out. My dad even said last night he would not mind if i came home drunk some weekends throwing up, he would prefer that to me smoking weed. What can i do to put my point across to them, im not a SMACK HEAD, they say weed makes me depressed, but im not apart from when they shout abuse at me. What can i do

Answer 1

The three of you would benefit from some family/abuse couseling...you all have a problem!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I would talk to a school concellor, or another adult that you trust. It may be better for you if you spent some time away from them As fo the weed smoking, I understand that, however it is harmful in many ways you may not understand. If it were just an occational recreation, that would be one thing but it sounds as though you are trying to escape a bad home life. Your parents need help, but right now you need to get yourself some help first, so you can get away, in a more stable enviroment. Good luck

Answer 3

Your parents are the reason why you are smoking weed. I feel real sorry for you. They brought you into this world, you had no choice and they abuse you, made your life miserable, how cruel of them!. They have set a very bad example for you. But you dont have to be like them. You can teach them a very good lesson. Show them, what they did to you, you will never do that to your own children. Show them that you are strong and can live your life without their love cos they dont deserve to be loved by you. Toxicating yourself either with alcohol or weeds, neither of it will ever do any good to you or to your future with your own family and kids. The best thing you could do to start, is to ignore them and change your life completely. look for new ways and join decent groups that fall under your hobbies and decent job will all bring you a lot of peace and happiness. good luck.

Answer 4

Well weed is bad for you, I understand why you take it, but it's just as bad as alcohol. Your parents don't look like they're able to properly take care of a child. Is there somewhere else you could go for a while? I dunno an aunt, a friend, call child protection maybe. You really shouldn't stay around them, they'll drag you down with them. Maybe there's a psychologist you can talk to at your school and he can help you deal with this situation.,

Answer 5

maybe they don' really hate u they are just drunk and not happy what u can do is stop them from being drunk and tell them how u feel about what they say so u should find a doctor or therpist to help them stop drunking achol

Answer 6

Continue to smoke weed and hope your parents grow up.

Answer 7

Um...age?

If you're underage, hide all that stuff about yourself - be a straight-laced, clean kid in front of them, use them for what you need (shelter, money, etc) get your diploma and then leave.

If you are an adult and still living with them, then it's probably time you moved out.

Answer 8

I think you should educate yourself about weed. Your whole family is using chemicals to shield themselves from life. Ever wonder why?

Answer 9

I have to agree that you all need family counselling, being addicted to booze and weed are equally bad, you all need help to communicate

Answer 10

Two wrongs do not make a right you know.