I'm going to a movie this Wednesday and my crush from church will be going. I really like him and I think he likes me. How do I ask him to sit next to me?? Because I think that if I sit next to him, something might happen between us. I'm not going out with him but we are really good friends. Soooo, how do I ask him if he wants to sit next to me?? If he says yes, how do I react. If he says no, how do I react?
Thanks for your help!!
Shadow
2007-12-11 00:02:59 · 7 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask! If you are already friends, he will hardly refuse. Find a way to be near him at the start, and just ask "Is it OK if we sit together?" Or a stronger question would be "Would you mind if I sit next to you?" Even better would be "Would you like to sit next to me?" This last is the best option, because if he accepts, then there is a real opening for a continuing friendship. It also indicates that you are interested in HIM, which the weaker approaches might not make clear.
If he refuses; then either he is not worth it or he has a really good reason. Be cool and relaxed. If it doesn't work first time (eg, if he is sitting next to other friends), then he will remember your approach at the next opportunity, and might ask YOU.
2007-12-11 00:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by AndrewG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your at the movie, make sure you start a conversation with him/tell im a joke just before/as your walking into the room (where you'll sit). That way your be standing next to each other by the time you get to the seats than, don't ask, just sit next to him, it's not a big deal (tell yourself).
2007-12-11 00:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be like sit here! and if he doesnt get up and sit next to him, ya know like all playful. if he doesnt, throw popcorn at his head, but IN A NICE WAY! haha(= If he says yes, go with the flow. If he says, no, do what i said before. just dont do the popcorn thing if you guys arent really close! lol best wishes!(=
2007-12-11 07:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by jaydennn_327 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and say hey we should sit next to each other at the cinema in a really friendly innocent way and if he says no then he'll probs have a reason and smile and go thats fine , ive already been offered i just wanted to make sure you werent alone or something like that ....:S
2007-12-11 00:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for him to sit then sit next to him
2007-12-11 00:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very easy question....say to him that you admire him, and if he says that he has also feelings for you then go girl don't waste it, it's your chance, if he says no well it's not that bad at least you told to that guy that you like him and because he also your friend he has no guts to take you advantage of what you feel for him...
2007-12-11 00:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by rhona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a seat next to him...that's okay...
2007-12-11 00:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋