when i look at a fat people i feel disgusted. i cannot look at fat people because it makes me physically ill. i see them as lazy, smelly, stupid people. they blame it all on genetics which most the time isnt the cause for their weight problem! ive never met a fat person who hasnt blamed their weight on genetics and its annoying! i dont know their medical history but when they have a fit family but theyre the only lard ***, somethings not right! i want to get over my hatred for fat people because hatred makes me feel terrible! my sisters in law and mother in law are all overweight and i dont want my hatred to hinder me getting to know them better. my worst fear is to become even slightly out of my comfort weight zone ya know? i know theyre people too but it makes me sick to watch these fatties walk into mcdonalds or something and buy out the whole store! how do i get over this?
2007-12-10 21:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Let me rephrase your comments to you in another way and maybe you'll rethink your perspective: "I hate certain people for no other reason than what they look like." What does that say about you?
2007-12-11 01:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by missbeans 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
It is very easy to do, I have this problem with thin people when I look at thin people I feel disgusted. I cannot look at thin people because it makes me physically ill. I see them as lazy, smelly, stupid people. they blame it all on genetics which most the time isn't the cause for their weight problem! Ive never met a thin person who hasn't blamed their weight on genetics and its annoying! I don't know their medical history but when they have a fit family but they're the only bag of bones, then somethings not right! I want to get over my hatred for thin people because hatred makes me feel terrible! my sisters in law and mother in law are all under weight and I don't want my hatred to hinder me getting to know them better. my worst fear is to become even slightly out of my comfort weight zone you know? I know they are people too but it makes me sick to watch these thinnies walk into McDonald's or something and buy out the whole store! how do I get over this? I know that I have a screw or two loose and that I am just picking on thin people because they are disgusting but what the hell I have to moan about something.
2007-12-10 23:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Percy Fawcette-Smythe. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude, seriously. You need therapy. I don't know what your mother did to you, but it was wrong. Normal people may not think overweight people are healthy, or they may feel badly for them, or even irritated with them to some small degree, but you have clearly crossed way over a normal reaction to something that isn't even relevant to who you are or what affects you directly.
I'm not obese, I don't have a medical condition, but I could lose a pound or two. My mother is very overweight; she is very clean, very intellectual and there is NOTHING lazy about her. In fact, she is 55 and works in a Nursing Home flipping patients all day. More physical work than what I would imagine most, including you, are able to do. Your thought process is off track.
Get some help my friend.
2007-12-10 21:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Think! 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to love your self first. If you are able to love yourself and accept who you are. You would not be carrying such hatred toward others. Are you afraid of getting fat yourself? We are not perfect. Have you wonder what others think of you?
Stop wasting your energy on hating people that you don't even know. Take more time to look beyond the appearance of a person. They are as good people as you and I. God created us different and unique. I am sure you'll find some goodness in each and everyone of us. Could you imagine if we all look like barbie???
Yes, according to medical books, it could be genetic.
I am glad that you are seeking for answer and help. Enjoy your everyday life, take time to smell the roses and count your blessings.
2007-12-10 21:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i've got been fat, skinny and each little thing in between, and that i nonetheless think of that's suitable to maintain faraway from fat jokes. fat is correct to the only element that is nonetheless okay to make relaxing of, yet there are people who're fat with the aid of no fault of their very own. There are people who are unable to exercising by way of actual issues, people who overeat out of emotional issues and individuals who benefit weight by way of drugs like Paxil. being pregnant weight is extremely hard for some women people to lose. no longer anybody is youthful, healthy and able to drop some weight in the event that they like to. that is ignorant to make relaxing of fat people. edit--did no longer you're saying you have been like 35 or so? i think of it's time to return off the "haha, you're fat and that i'm no longer" stuff. what's to be gained by potential of making people sense like crap?
2016-10-11 01:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a fat suit for a week complete with make up for the face and all. See how you are judged by how you look.
2007-12-10 21:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Samson the Guinea Pig 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
.Be a little more compassionate towards your fellow human being, some people eat for comfort, because they have problems to sort out, you have to give way a bit to others, nobodies perfect.
2007-12-10 21:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony M 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there are times i think the same thing. all they do half the time is shove junk in there mouth, and they put the blame on every thing else. some are not like that. my sis in law had a severe weight problem and ballooned up to four hundred pounds, tried every diet out there, didnt work, she went in for surgery, and now she is about 150 pounds. looks great.
2007-12-10 21:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
You have a serious problem, and part of it is that someday you think you might be like that.
2007-12-10 23:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become one. Eat your heart out.
2007-12-10 21:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋