What am I to do now....
I'm 18 years old by the way.
Like okay I love Steven,17 years old, but then there is Frank.
Steven Story:Okay he and I did it ,and his mom found out.At first Steven said"It was a Misstake",meaning he broke up with me,then 3 weeks later saying it was not a misstake. So I went back out with him. His mom told me he acts like an 14 year old and says I deserve an older guy. But we been dating secertly. And sometimes he dose not know what to do with his life.
Frank:I just met him and he is 25 years old. He and I really care for one and anouther,we have alot of things in common,he dose have a futcher,he wants to go to collage,and just today he ask me out and I said"give me time".
Now I need to think.I have intill tommrow Wendesday because Steven is coming to vist me at school. Should I take Steven's Moms word and Respect it or should I stay with Steven.(We been going out for 3 months) If I do break up with Steven how should I do it without hurting him? Please Help
2007-12-10 20:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah sorry about the spelling misstakes.
I have a LD. :[
2007-12-10 20:54:26 · update #1
OH I did not mean 25 years old I ment 23 years old! lol
Yeah I need to take my time! ^_^
2007-12-10 20:57:37 · update #2
face your study
2007-12-10 20:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by david 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's my advice, and it's harsh advice.
1. Stay in school and learn how to spell and use proper grammar, PLEASE.
2. If Steven's MOM is even telling you that you deserve better, I'd take her advice. There is nothing worse than being with a man who behaves like a child.
It's not the nicest thing I've ever said, but I mean it all the same.
Good luck to you.
2007-12-10 20:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you have more in common with the older guy, then do it. Be careful, however. Those older guys have a way of convincing you that they really care just to get into your pants! Make sure tht he is sincere before you sleep with him. By the way, you really need to do something about your spelling. It is terrible. There were at least 8 spelling errors. At least try to use spell check. That makes your question difficult to understand.
2007-12-10 20:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give steven a chance because i see so many girls go out with older guys (no matter how mature the girl thinks she is) and wind up getting hurt anyway. older guys do seem to charm younger girls easier too. but if you feel steven is too immature he might come around eventually. sometimes young guys have troble with emotions and dealing with women
2007-12-10 20:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Supaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 year old adult with 17 year old still in the custody of his mother,, hmmmm. Maybe you should let Steven know that you need to how learn to spell, then you'll decide about him. That should make him about 20yrs old by the time you "have to decide".
2007-12-10 20:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by just another me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's future, and maybe you should leave the guys alone and focus on your future. Wake up and stop believing the pipe dreams frank is selling. At 25 if he really wanted to go to college he would have done it by now.
2007-12-10 20:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok like steven can be like immature.... and like frank has a futcher.... and i think you mean like future. or hes a frankfuter.
but i think hey... your 18. and i really want one of those so like... wanna come over?
2007-12-10 20:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by rufstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on and follow your heart..i know steven will understand..it was just 3 months anyway.
2007-12-10 20:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Judezen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋