to be bisexual alot of people are telling me it is but i cant seem to change its been 4 to 5 years and people are telling me its wrong and i need to change for every one else so idk what to do plus my dad knows and he thinks that im grose now because hes homophobe ://
plus i like this gurl but shes straight :[ what do i do
by the way im 15
2007-12-10 14:35:54 · 6 answers · asked by Katelyn G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, there can be no wrong sexual prefernce. Whether your str8, bisexual, trisexual, asexual, whatever. Thatz your prefernce and there's nothing wrong with that regardless what ANYONE tells you. Anyone who tells you it is wrong is insecure with THEMSELVES, so dont consider those people's opinions. Secondly, if you 'like' someone who is str8, make sure that YOU are respectful of THEIR sexuality. They may or may not be comfortable with the idea of being homosexual themselves. That doesn't mean that they are mean or wrong. Thatz just THEIR sexuality. It was very brave of you to tell your dad at such an early age, and I don't think you should be ridiculed for that. Some people don't come out to their parents until late adulthood, while some never come out because of fear. Even though he is your father, he has no right to judge you. It may be a shock to him now, maybe not what h had planned for you, but you don't owe him anything when it comes to that. If I were you I would speak to a doctor or professional to get some advice on how to cope with this. And please be safe. Be careful who you tell and how you tell them. Be ready to face some evil people, and never lose who you are and what you believe in. Be strong. There is NOTHING wrong with you.
2007-12-10 14:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Celtic_Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about it. There is nothing wrong with being Bi, Homo, or straight. Sex is Sex. What you do behind closed doors is no one's business. As long as no one is hurt and everything is legal, have fun. Now, the legal part. Your 15. A whole life ahead of you. Slow down and let your life develop. When you are 18 you have the freedom to do whatever you like, because you will be responsible for your own actions. Until then, your parents are in charge. Just relax and everything wil happen in due time.
2007-12-11 08:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, it's natural. You are who you are. People will get over it, and people at college couldn't care less. As for the straight girl, there's nothing you can do to make her like you. She is who she is, just like you. You can be her friend, but you should try to detach yourself romantically. Take it from me, it's not worth obsessing over. I had a crush on a straight guy junior year, and it just wasn't good. You will find people who feel the same way, it might just take time.
2007-12-10 22:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way is it wrong! i've been bi for 3 years (i'm 14), and my mom thinks that there's 'no such thing'. don't listen to the haters! love has no gender. maybe, if you're comfortable, you should ask the girl that you like if she's interested...you never know. good luck!
2007-12-10 22:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to be who you are. That's like saying it's wrong to be black or short or freckly. I think I may be bi, but I'm not telling my parents yet. They say they'll love me if I'm gay, but they don't think bi is real. As far as your crush is concerned, don't say anything awkward to her. I have had crushes on gay guys, but they treat you weird if you act like you like them. Just try to be friends with that girl and keep it at that.
2007-12-10 22:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by harmonardus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a special person for you..made for only you.. and it is a guy. not a girl. so i think its a waste of time...
and its just not right.
2007-12-10 22:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋