I'm a guy who has kinda long hair. Its not that long actually.. my back side hair just covers the neck. that's not that important. The problem is that this one girl in my class room cut my back side hair for no reason..I dunno if it sounds right to you guys but I got pretty angry at her cutting my hair with the hole puncher. She didn't cut alot but it made my back side hair look unbalanced. I just frowned at her and cussed a little but she kept fuking annoyed me and later she spread a wierd rumor that I was about to cry or something ( which I never even closed to be. may be she mis saw my frowning expression or something). Do you think I should have hitten her??? This happened quite long ago but it keeps on coming up in my mind...What would u do if this happened to you?? And do you think it was wrong for a guy to be mad just because girl cut my hair?
2007-12-10 12:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by blckcat 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
hmm....i'm a guy...male...not a girl.. :(...
2007-12-10 13:14:25 · update #1
Hell no! I'd be pissed right off. It's not so much about the hair, but about the fact that someone is arrogant enough to do it!! Who does she think she is? That said, hitting her is NOT the solution, and I'm glad you didn't. Her spreading rumours on top of it all is even more stupid and annoying. Goes to show how mature she is. Anyways, don't stoop to her level. Ignore it and move on because there really isn't much you can do about it. Yeah you could start a rumer, cut her hair blah blah but then you'd be just as bad as her. So, be the bigger man. Hey, mayb eyou can get a super hot haircut and then go up to her and say, "I'm SO happy you cut my hair because I had to get a haircut and it looks awesome."
2007-12-10 12:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she cut your hair in class, why didn't you just jump out of the chair and exclaim, "WHY ARE YOU CUTTING MY HAIR, YOU IDIOT?!" I'd be really angry, too -- I sure wouldn't have just sat there and let her cut my hair! But hitting her wouldn't have solved anything, and it would have just gotten you into trouble.
But the opportunity to do something about it has come and gone. Let it go -- but never sit next to this girl ever again.
2007-12-10 22:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. If a girl's hair had been cut, she'd have gone crying to the teacher. You could have done the same, but without the crying. Luckily, it grew back. If you like it long, keep it long. Maybe she was jealous of your hair.
2007-12-10 20:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by KnowItAll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had no right to cut your hair, but you did the right thing in not hitting her.
My advice is to forget about it and get on with your life, there will be a lot bigger problems facing you in the years ahead, and you'll see that this isn't worth all of the mental efforts that your putting into it.
Move forward, and get off of it!!!
2007-12-11 07:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not have hit her but I would have told on her. People are not allowed to touch you without your permission. You have every right to be mad no matter who cut your hair. Something was done to you without your knowledge. I would have been furious.
2007-12-11 02:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WTF that is really messed up. You definitely should not have hit her, because you would have gotten in a lot of trouble. You should have done something though. I know the mature thing to do is to talk to her, or ignore her, but that would make me so angry that I would have to do something back. You DEFINITELY have a right to be mad. Do something, not physical, but something. On a day she is wearing white pants, put ketchup on her seat ha!
2007-12-10 20:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by mrr86 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats assult. Really it is. And that's just weird too. Maybe it's her way of getting attention from you ;P or maybe shes just an immature prick. You won't win if shes good at spreading rumors. Ignore her and if she does it again, bring it up with your teacher
2007-12-10 23:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋