ok so i really like this guy and this morning at school my best frind ran up to me and shes all guess who im going out with well guess who it was..my crush. i wanna be happy for her but at the same time a wanna strangle her!! please someone tell me what to do!! and you have to understand this is my best friend and the guy is really nice and funny and REALLY REALLY cute...please someone help me!!!
2007-12-10 11:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Omg. i am SOO sorry. seriously..that must suck a*s.
Hmm.. honestly.. what I would do is find someone better or like this guy. If you did you wouldnt chance ruining any relationships.
Just move on, and I know it will be hard, but there are plently of guys that there is a potential for you to like in your school I bet and you just need to go and find them.
Im really sorry, but things like this happen to EVERYONE so your not alone. Trust me.
And im 14 years old, so i must be someone near your age since youre in school. so take it from me
:]
2007-12-10 11:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your friend know that you liked him? Well, if this happened to me, if my best friend went out with the girl I like, well, I'd feel pretty bad too. But all I can say is, who is more important to you: your friend or the guy? If it was me, I would support your friend and her boyfriend, that way when they break up, neither will be mad at you, but when that happens, don't go out with him right away, because it may make your friend a little upset. Sorry.
2007-12-11 10:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by #1MetsFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she took the initiative first. There's nothing you really can do. To interfere with love by tearing two people apart would only cause more trouble. By trying to break them up, you would only end up getting both of them to dislike you and maybe even tightening the bond between them.
What you can do, is just be friends with your crush. Now that he is with someone, especially your best friend, I don't think either of them would think that you are doing anything bad. By developing a friendship with your crush, who knows? He might end up choosing you.
But do _not_ try to break them up.
2007-12-10 11:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out which one you like more, and remember that if you never had a chance with this guy, your friend is way more important.
Also, Chicks before *****
2007-12-10 11:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by kaity-lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from her ability to go after what she wants. Other than that if they break up you can always make that friend risking move or just find someone else.
2007-12-10 11:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her an tell her how you feel. A friendship is special and if you still feel bad after you talk to her then you should distance yourself from her for a while.
2007-12-10 11:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knew you liked him then she is no friend at all...find someone who will respect your feelings.
2007-12-10 11:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless them ,charm him steel em off er later.
2007-12-10 11:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by Marble77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth it, and neither is your friend.
find a new friend that will care about your feelings because this girl obviously doesnt.
2007-12-10 11:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋