Okay, so this friend of mine has been flirting pretty hard with me. He casually asked me to eat dinner with him one night, and we ended up in a group. Anyway, afterward we all went out, and had some drinks. He was holding my hand, rubbing my shoulders, just real "touchy feely" ya know? I didn't mind, kinda liked it. Anyway, at the end of the night, he wanted me to kiss him, and I said no. I kissed his cheek and hugged him, and told him to be patient. Now he won't talk to me anymore! He won't even answer my text messages..... What happened? What should I do? Was he just out for "some fun"?
2007-12-10 11:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by mississippi_girl_9265 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I say "touch feely" i don't mean like super sexually. Just things like holding my hand, putting his hand on my shoulder or back.... I am also wondering if he is just embarrassed... He is by nature a pretty shy guy, and really doesn't date much.
2007-12-10 11:49:45 · update #1
ofcourse he was...anyone who gets mad at you just cuz he doesnt get the kiss he asked you for was after something you obviously didnt know was his main intention. OR his pride could be hurt but if he is a real friend OR MORE IMPORTANTLY ...if hes really worth dating, he'll realize he has to work at getting you but if hes not let him go you dont need someone like that in your lif e anyways
2007-12-10 11:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he thought he was going to get lucky and got mad when you turned him down, however, sounds like you let that idea form in his mind, if you were allowing the "touchy feely" stuff. Just ask him what's up when you see him, if you still want to talk to someone who won't talk to you cause you didn't let him score.
2007-12-10 19:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by amelia_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun to me it sounds like he was out for some fun. He's really stupid for just dropping you like that. If you wasn't ready for him then he should've waited on you. But I'm sorry that this happened to you but yeah, he just wanted to have some fun. Good luck on finding a better guy. P.S. You should tell him that you aren't interested into him anymore and that he needs to go and screw himself. No offense.
2007-12-10 19:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just impatient and he wanted to get to it right away. You were right to say no when you felt you weren't ready.
Of course there is a chance that he was just out for fun as well.
2007-12-10 19:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋