This one guy i like went out with this one chick but then she broke up with him the next day. He is really sad and i don't know how to talk to him. He is really sad but i like him and now that he is free i wish he might ask me out. I wish. But how should i talk to him cause he is so sad and i want to make him feel better. What should i do about him? Should i tell him how i feel or that she was just using you most likely? We are really great friends and he knows i like him and he said alot of nice things and made me feel better when he was going out with her. Now i want to make him feel better. Thanks alot.
2007-12-10 11:32:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say he knows you like him. The first thing to consider is how he found out, and how he reacted. If you look at those and have a really good feeling that he likes you, you should ask him. Be careful though! You should wait a while because you said he was sad. Give him time to get over it. Also don't talk about his ex to him. Don't tell him you think she was using him. But if you feel that friendship is more important to you, then the best thing, is probably not to ask him. But if you stay by him and be a great friend, he might come to realise how great you are and ask you out himself. Either way, good luck!
2007-12-10 11:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Yodel-a-e-oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you should stop calling another girl a "chick"as I am sure you will not like to be so called.Secondly, your friend is in serious pain and needs some support.While I know you want to be with him in a romantic relationship, you have to put your own feelings for him aside and focus only on him.Listen to all he has to say---his pain, concerns,and fears.Console him and let him cry on your shoulders, and if he wants to talk about her, then listen to him without saying negative things about her.If at some point in time he recovers and is ready for a new romance, then you can let him know of your feelings for him.However, he can speak to you anytime he feels he has developed feelings for you.This is what you(or any good friend ) can do if you want to help him even if it means you may not get him the way you want to.That is the meaning of true friendship.
2007-12-10 20:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him he's a good guy and u are there for him just make him feel nice!
2007-12-10 19:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Jawn ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk u should ask ur parents
2007-12-10 19:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋