I'm a hetrosexual woman and I've been dating a "guy" for 4 years. He looked like one of those pretty boy model types. Well once I found out that he wasn't all entirely male I was shocked, disgusted, sad, and mad. I broke up with him because I'm a religious Christian, but I realized what I did was not being a true Christian. God made him have two genders and he never chose to be born the way that he was. Besides I'm madly in love with him! So I apologized to him and we got back together. Everything about him looks all male except he has small breasts, about a size A, his male private part is rather small, and he has ovaries instead of testes. I don't care though for I love him! He even considers himself a man and not a woman. He was born this way and was too afraid to tell me because he didn't want to lose me. He eventually proposed to me and I said yes! We plan to have children one day but will have to adopt since he has ovaries and not testes. I love my man and he loves me!
2007-12-10 11:03:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I believe that I'm not sinning either is my fiance!
2007-12-10 11:05:13 · update #1
No. Hell does not exist. Thanks for coming out!
2007-12-10 11:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by ►solo 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
technically he is a girl... because he has ovaries instead of testes. that is the defining factor in this condition whether you really are a boy or a girl...
though "he" chose to be a man...that is a choice but structurally "he" is a woman..and there are available surgeries and hormone therapies if chose to be a woman...since structurally "he" is a woman!
religion doesn't have anything to do with this... but before getting married you should know..."he" can't have any children just like you can't have children by having sex with a woman.
and since technically "he" is a woman....expect some female hormones surging through "him" making "him" act womanly sometimes!
2007-12-10 11:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by li_i_ren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the Bible doesn't really address this but i don't think that you are doing anything morally or biblically wrong.
I personally find the situation a bit odd and I don't think I would make the decision to stay. This is your relationship though and if you're in love I say go for it.
Good luck to you both and God bless!
2007-12-10 11:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Allee_Rose17 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being born that way is no way a sin, nor are you commiting a sin.
Being madly in love, happily married, adopting child...all that is being done with good intension and honesty.
What more happiness than that. God will like it and will bless it.
2007-12-10 11:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your interpreting a techniques too plenty into the fact "ditto." It only means "back at you" or "I agree, which has been a wonderfully exceptable answer for an prolonged time to many distinctive comments. So why are you rhinking poorly of it? He would have been busy or finding for a swifter thank you to answer you with the help of way of texting. consistent with possibility he made the errors of questioning which you may take it as amazing or the way that it became meant. the two way he became only pointing out that he loves you and which you made him chuffed too. Be happy of it.
2016-12-10 18:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by jandrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some could argue God made him like this. If he's primarily man, and you're in love, I don't think you're doing anything wrong. God loves him, why can't you?! I don't even think this can truly be considered homosexuality. Enjoy your life together!
2007-12-10 11:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by jess i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! I'm suprised you can get a marriage license. Is he legally a man? cause it sure sounds like he has more female than male parts. I think your selling yourself short. (no pun intended) & also your in for problems later on down the road. Personally I wouldn't hurry to marriage. If at all.
2007-12-10 11:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Karebear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God made him have two genders
No.
Is he a Christian? If not then that is a far more reasonable reason not to marry than his gender problem.
2007-12-10 11:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a private matter between the two of you. Have a happy life!
2007-12-10 11:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by dddbbb 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind then find an appropriate MD to make a dominant gender, then decide whether you belong to each other.
2007-12-10 11:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by klby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because God send everybody to hell without exception.
2007-12-10 11:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋