Is having your child/ children everything that you thought it would be and more. I don't have kids and always wondered what it would be like...thanks
2007-12-10 10:18:55 · 9 answers · asked by kharilli 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
What does my avatar have to do with me having kids?? Just cause I choose to have myself displayed like that means that I can't be a good mother? thats the trouble with people, always quick to judge someone based on how they look when they know absolutely NOTHING about that person. some of the most prim and proper people you meey in the streets are just so horrible behind closed doors, but YOU wouldn't know because they look so "decent". I don't think I'm the one who needs to grow up. As you can see I'm grown.!!..have a nice day.
2007-12-10 10:35:56 · update #1
Thanks Ghetto p..Its nice to see someone get past the avatar and focus on the question..God bless.
2007-12-10 10:46:45 · update #2
Thank you leafsan. That brought tears to my eyes..you're so lucky.
2007-12-10 11:03:00 · update #3
first off i hate how people judge someone before they know them....i look like i am 13 or 14 but i am almost 20 so when i was pregnant everyone said rude things. but anyway. having my son was interesting that's for sure. I wouldn't change it for the world. but it has been quite a ride. IT wonderful being a mother. i love the way he looks at me and smiles its amazing how much you can love someone. the other day he woke up rolled over and said mommy in such a sad little voice. it was the first time he ever said mommy...he says mama but not mommy.....that was honestly one of the best words i have ever heard. It has been more then i thought it could be. Hope i helped....good luck.
2007-12-10 10:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by mommy to 3! 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is all of that and so much more. I almost died having my daughter, but now looking back it was worth every rough day and tear shed to see the smile on her face every day. She makes me a better person and inspires me to do things in life. That's because she is only 3 1/2 yrs. old. but I definately wouldn't change it for the world!!! Good luck!
2007-12-10 19:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by raiyn4502 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is everything I thought it would be, they have brought so much joy to my life that I can't even imagine life without them. They are my everything and they always will be!!!!
When they look into your eyes and say momma for the first time, or the first time they say I love you or that cute toothy smile. It honestly is priceless and I would not change it for the world!!
2007-12-10 19:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by PG with #3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I raised a couplre of girls myself. I'll tell ya it was definately one suprise after another. Sometimes a little rocky, but in hind sight, I would'nt trade those 20 yrs for anything.
2007-12-11 07:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gotta agree about the avatar. Besides that, having my son is all I thought it would be and more. More of being an adult - it's not just about me anymore. Everything I say and do with him I need to think about because it will have an effect on him right now and affect what kind of an adult he will turn out to be.
2007-12-10 18:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy H 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Ignore the other answerers. Everyone was a little wild before they had kids. Yes children change your life. My brother was an alcoholic and changed his habit in a snap for his baby. We have never seen him act so responsible. Hope everything works out.
2007-12-10 18:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Shelbi =) 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's the hardest job you'll ever love
2007-12-10 19:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all your avatar is highly innapropriate! And your thinking about having kids?
2007-12-10 18:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by no one 5 · 5⤊ 6⤋
Grow up first!
2007-12-10 18:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by The Voice of Reason 7 · 2⤊ 6⤋