My friend just went through a rough breakup from a relationship of 5 years, plus they have a 3 year old child. He is a great father, friend and person.
Lately he has been going down to a strip joint and "hanging out" with a certain 19 yr old stripper who goes by the stage name of "Long-limbs-Lenora". I tell him she is just after his money and will say anything to keep him coming back, but my friend doesnt see it that way. He thinks she actually likes him and wants to bump uglies or sometin. She gives him lines like "Yea, im broke and stuck in a bad situation", asked him for his number, etc. My friend keeps going back and getting lap dances from her (3 nights in a row once) and he's hooked.
I dont want to burst his bubble, but I want to be a good friend. What should I do?
2007-12-10 09:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a REAL situation.
2007-12-10 09:46:08 · update #1
Alright, ask this friend of yours what's he going to do in his life with a stripper? If he and this stripper get married, IF and have kids, then what are you going to say to your KIDS? "My wife bangs other men everyday?"..
And 19 YEARS OLD? come on! She's way too young..!
Anyways, if you could try to get a confession of this "Lenora" of her saying she only wants money and that's part of her job and she doesn't mix business with personal.
Tell him that, he should find another girl and not a stripper that meets alot of men everyday..
Give him advice and tell him he is going to regret it, and also.. Tell him you have a kid, you should take care of him more rather than get laid everyday!
2007-12-10 09:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to realize this girl may be on drugs and may have an alcohol problem.If so she will probably never get out of this lifestyle seeing she will need high dollars to maintain it.
If she is NOT on drugs and/or alcohol, chances are she isnt going to stop stripping for him or any other man.
Why?
Simple.Its an ego trip for a woman to have all those men wanting her, and why should she settle for one peice of candy when she can have any piece of candy any night in the store seeing she own all the candy?
Candy being men,candy being she can pick and choose a different guy to sleep with every night and take the candy's money to boot.Yes get worshiped by good looking men and get paid big money too!
He may be thinking he will rescue her from this lifestyle, but what he doesnt realize is she does not WANT to be rescued.
He will end up sorry.A 19 yr old this day and time usually is about as mature as a 10 yr old.And this girl has problems.Tell him to try church if he wants a decent woman.
2007-12-10 17:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the consequences of his child having a stripper as a mother
2007-12-10 17:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by byap85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get money have another friend over tell him to bring a tape recorder. Look for the girl and give her money and have her do stuff then as your freinds recording give it to your other freind and problem solved
2007-12-10 17:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sigh. you know what I would do ? i would tell him what you think and why you think so. since he's your friend, you wouldnt wanna see him hurt rite? try to catch that girl confessing it to someone. then you dont have to burst his bubble an dstill help him. =)
2007-12-10 17:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥CaramelDucky♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent him a hooker and when the deed is done, say: "That's what's supposed to happen when you pay for it." lol
2007-12-10 17:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down, b***h smack him and then tell him what you need to.
2007-12-10 17:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SNAP HIM OUT OF THAT RITE NOW
2007-12-10 18:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋