the other day my boyfriend was telling me how he ran into his ex who he never talks to anymore and how he thouht to himself "i really don't know how i ever went out with her, i really just do not like her".
so i was over at his apartment (which i don't go to much) and i noticed he has a lot of pictures of her around his room. he has pictures of the two of them together and some of just her. he doesn't even have a single picture of me anywhere. if he never talks to her and doesn't like her, why does he have pictures of her out???
and he asked me to get something out of drawer in his room and i found what looked like a poem about her.
do i have reason to be worried or am i just being ridiculous??
2007-12-10 09:19:38 · 14 answers · asked by kfl058 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg. wow, umm I think you should because I think he's lying to you about not liking her. He definitely still likes her. Talk to him about this.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-10 09:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I worry 24/7 some days I cant even think of directly because of the fact all i will do is worry approximately issues. Like if I pronounced some thing to somebody, I worry that i'll have harm them, even even with the undeniable fact that i did no longer say something hurtful, I nevertheless worry.
2016-10-01 07:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by kovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would be worried. Is she an ex or not? Is she his past.... because it looks like she is his present.
I think if I were you, I would ask him why he has so many pictures of her if he doesnt even like her and see what he says.
I think you should let it be completely up to him. Dont tell him to take the pics down - he should do that on his own. Dont tell him it bothers you... he should know that is does. Just mention that its "weird"... and then make it a point to take a lot of pictures of the two of you. Frame a couple of them, give it to him and see what he does from there.
If he still doesnt get it, then ship him off. Sometimes, men have to figure things out on their own. If he doesnt, you have your answer.
2007-12-10 09:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I saw that, I would have flipped. Like seriously. I would have asked why all her pictures are up if he didn't like her or care for her anymore. And then when I went in his drawer I would have questioned the poem. I mean, if he doesn't have anything to hide then he shouldn't argue with you.
But honestly, it seems like he's lying and he's BOLD to have you come over there and all those pictures are still up. I mean, that's dumb... no man is that stupid.
I would question him, not accusingly, and see where is mind and heart is.
2007-12-10 09:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd worry like crazy. He has pictures of her still out? And none of you? Right there...He's still in love with her. And he probably didn't "run into her" either. He probably made plans to see her. Proof is in the pudding or in this case...in the pictures. Find someone who thinks having picture of YOU all over his room is a great thing! You deserve that!
2007-12-10 09:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by nonameblonde 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he said he is over her then he probably is he just hasn't fully let go yet. If this bothers you then ask him about it and see what he has to say about the situation. if it makes you uncomfortable and he loves you he will understand your view of things better and take the pictures down. Don't worry to much about it some guys are just like that
2007-12-10 09:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you've got reason to be worried, girl he still has pictures of her ever where you look? what if you start making out .... he's going to pull a pic of her out just to get going, hon you need to set some rules here ok
1. take the pics down and put your pics up
2.ask him what the heck is goin on why does he still have her up and not you?
3. talk to him ask him whats up
girl if he loves you then why does he got these pics up and not you up? why does he still have a poem he wrote her and not you?
2007-12-10 09:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by #2 DUKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worry?? he obviosly has those picture out for a reason....confront him about it you have everyright! now about the poem well thats just his personal stuff but those picutres of her everywhere thats just a little weird! and for him to say that well i just think he was feeding you that line so you wont worry about her when really you should! just keep an eye on him and if i were you i would ask him about the pics!
2007-12-10 09:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by *SIMPLY ME* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because he is ur boyfriend and he shouldnt have those pic of her around if he never talks to her again. so u could talk to kim and ask him why he has pic of her around his room and not u. since u dont talk to her anymore then why do u have them there???
thats what i would say to him or ask him
2007-12-11 09:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Joe_Tator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
YOur picture is all he needs to see right now.
Memories are memories, and that's fine, but his focus is ALL wrong.
2007-12-10 09:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋