HEllo all I am having some issues with my boyfriend...he is so wonderful but in the sex/affection/intimacy department, we seem to be lacking something...
It seems to me that the only way we have sex or show any type of affection is if I initiate it. When it comes to SEX if I dont start something then it just wont happen. He has his own place and I have mine, and he can come over and spend the night 5-7 days in a row and he will just go straight to sleep.. I dont want to seem like a NAG or make it seem like thats all I want but I am a very sexual person and need that type of attention regularly if not on a daily basis...am i asking for tooo much?? How do I tell him that I need him to be more aggressive without hurting his pride/manhood???
2007-12-10 07:58:52 · 1 answers · asked by mishee_moo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him outright. Say you really enjoy having sex with him, but it would be nice if he could start initiating it. Let him know you're not displeased with him, just that you want him to make the first move - you think it's sexy.
Men want to please their girlfriends, but they don't always think of affection and initiating sex as something important to us. You need to let him know that it is.
2007-12-10 08:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋