I have started babysitting this little boy during the week while his mom goes to school. My little sister is graduating from college on Friday and I really want to go, but I would have leave Wednesday and won't be back until Sunday. I told the mother last week that she would need to make other arrangements for her son those 3 days. She told me today that she couldn't find anything to do with him. I really want to go, I haven't had a vacation or a break from my own kids in over 7 years. My sanity really depends on this trip, what do I do? I don't want to leave her "screwed" but I really need this vacation.
2007-12-10 06:24:52 · 11 answers · asked by Briana 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
My husband is taking the days off work to stay with my kids, he is definately NOT open to keeping somebody else's kids!
2007-12-10 08:01:45 · update #1
Go. She is his mother she needs to worry about what to do with her son. After all your sister will only graduate from college once. Besides you need a break, she should understand that.
2007-12-10 06:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uugh, this is difficult. Because if she is also at a university it is probably near finals for her. That said, a week or 2 notice, really isnt enough as most of her acquaintances are probably also in school.
A couple of things you could do, do some checking in your area (granted the mom could do this to) if there are any type of drop off centers. Or look at your network, if you know of anyone else who does daycare.
Also could you postpone, and do something later with your sister to celebrate. Graduations can be quite boring, especially at large schools. And frankly, I saw it as a last chance to party with friends each time I did. Then do a sisters weekend.
Also the bottom line is, your sister's graduation was probably planned very long ago. This could have been brought up when you signed her on. Especially if this comes during her finals, which could affect the rest of her life. I sense you are thinking of these things becuase you're already feeling bad. But what I think you need to do more IS TAKE MORE VACATIONS. Maybe just not this one considering the circumstances. Now if she's not on or near finals, my answer would be more like the others.
2007-12-10 06:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by lillilou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do YOU know anyone else who could possibly keep the little boy? Maybe you could ask a friend or relative if they would mind keeping the little boy for a few days, and then suggest that to the mother. You should take the trip, its not something that will ever happen again and you deserve to go. I would try to help the mother find someone else for a few days, but ultimitely its her responsibility.
2007-12-10 06:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Momof3kiddos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should go to support and celebrate your sister's accomplishments. Perhaps you can help the lady find someone suitable to babysit in your absence. Do you have a friend at church or in the neighborhood that can fill in for you? Who will be caring for your own kids? Is it possible that maybe that person can help with the little boy.
If you have given her adequate notice, then you should go. However, be prepared to lose a friend if you do.
2007-12-10 06:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Linda F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is -- you are running a business. It may only be one child and in your home, but it is still a business, none the less. Your business will be closed those days. Period. You gave her fair warning. You may be able to give her some refferals for other people or friends of yours to watch the baby while your gone. But overall, she needs to find care elsewhere. If you back down and dont follow through with your plans, the next time shell tell you she cant find care for him without even looking.
2007-12-10 06:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by lindsey j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a babysitting service that is very reputable, pay for the service yourself, and she can pay you for taking care of the child them 3 days. You might loose a little bit of money, but you will gain your sanity.
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2007-12-10 06:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jamin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I SAY ASK AH FRIEND OR FAMILY IF THEY WILL AND THEY CAN MAKE SOME MONEY
I THINK U SHOULD TELL THE MOM IF U CAN'T FIND ANYONE THAT THERES NOTHING U CAN DO U ALREADY MADE PAYMENT FOR UR FLIGHT OR SOMETHING SO
IT'S UR SISTER N U NEED TO BE THERE FOR HER TOO
SORRY
2007-12-10 06:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go. You gave her fair warning. Just be prepared for the fact that she may wish to find another babysitter to replace you. I would still recommend that you go. It sounds like you need it!
2007-12-10 06:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by xxxxxxxx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on, its your sisters graduation...i think she'll understand. but see if you can find a friend to fill in for you...
2007-12-10 06:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Tinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what's best for you: a vacation.
2007-12-10 06:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋