Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. Me and him get in little arguments but we just talk about them and get over it. Lately i ve been upset cause he is going to be alone on Christmas and i told him i feel bad cause i wanna be there. And he is all why do you care so much its only been three months. Yet he worries so much when im driving on the highway in the rain and stuff i told him its just like you worrying about me. Well my mom is an alcoholic and she calls me ***** sometimes and so on. Well then he said he was mad and upset at me. And i told well im just a ***** like my mom said. And hes all **** ur mom and so on your not. Im like yeah right. Hes all thats it last straw he keeps telling me i dont wanna be with someone who believes other peoples opinions. I thought you didnt do that. Is this the real person i knew. And now he wants us to take a break for 20 days and have me get my priorities strait and so on. What do i do i dont wanna take a break.
2007-12-10 05:34:41 · 3 answers · asked by Blank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The day before me and him were rough housing and we were throwing stuff at each other and he decided to throw a shoe and it hit me in the head and it hurt so i told him but i didnt say well we need to take a break. It hurts so much to know he is doing this and i dk why he is or what i can do to change. It but i have told him i dk why i said those things because i knwo there not true. And i know that im a good person at heart. Please help me! this hurts so much.
2007-12-10 05:36:44 · update #1
break up with him
2007-12-10 05:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to be with someone who doesn't love themself. Your mom's bad behavior is affecting you and how you view yourself. By using that as a way to get even with your boyfriend, you've upset him.
A break might be a good thing, especially for him. Sounds like he needs some time away from your negativity. Just assure him that you will work on your issues, but don't pressure him to come back ASAP.
2007-12-10 13:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right..And I am like ppppssshhh whatever...yeah what...and then she was like oh yeah....so whatever...but then I said get some get right...she said..what does that mean....oh yeah, and then it was over and then, yeah....
2007-12-10 13:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Little big brains 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋